Menopause and infidelity
Im 44 years old, and I went into full blown menopause last year after a hysterectomy, it’s been a hell of a year, more so the fact I’ve had zero sex drive.
Over the last week, I noticed my fella staying up late ever night and getting a lot of messages come through on his phone. Last week I went to retrieve a ball for my dog, when his phone buzzed next to my head, automatically I just glanced up, I saw a notification “saying thank you for your comment, my pussy really appreciates it” it was the start of my trust failing in him, I had a little look last night while he was asleep to see what’s occurring, we’ve both always said we have nothing to hide and we have each others pass codes. Well… he’s been wanking and chatting to content creators on here, 20 years younger than me for ages. He knows it’s been a rough year for me, weight gain, ageing, and everything changing.
How do I move forward from this?
I blame myself obviously, he’s said he will move out if he wants, but I don’t know if I want him to? I don’t know what to do 😢 any other ladies experienced this and have any solutions?