Looking for a do it all mom bag
Help! Tired of carrying a diaper bag. Any recs for a bag that:
\- big enough to carry a reg size spiral notebook and letter size papers (MUST)
\- have any 2 of these straps - crossbody, shoulder, backpack (prefer) but MUST be crossbody at least
\- looks good enough to carry as a woman and not just a mom
\- has structure to more or less stand by itself
\- durable and wipeable or looks good distressed (leather??)
\- preferably under $100? But also, give me more expensive options to save up for if there's something better!
\- multiple pockets OR recs for an organizer to go inside
\- ok with used/discountinued options (ebay, poshmark, BST, etc)
*More info on what I carry for myself and 5 ND special needs kids between 4-10 years old: wipes, pencil pouch of fidgets, small first aid kit, epi pen, inhaler, my scatter notebook, sometimes my laptop, sunscreen, rechargeable personal fan, travel case of backup meds, and snacks.
*I have my wallet and earbuds in a separate clutch I take out when I don't need the entire bag. (This also needs to be replaced, but I'll figure that out later 😅)