So, I have an outie. I once my ex husband after 1.5 years said that I have long lips but he also liked how it felt inside. I have some 30 body counts. None said anything. Then I got a labiaplasty where they only cut the long lips they didn’t narrow the clit hood.
After surgery, I dated a few people and I got engaged and sex was good and after broken engagement, I slept with several. One said “ you have pretty little pussy” the other said “ pretty toes pretty pussy” ( my toes are cute) after that I dated a guy, first date he came three times. I was trying to show him clit, he ( with poker face) said it the puffy thing. I felt he didn’t like mine. Second date he of curse came multiple times. He said I want to be honest with you, you have too much skin on your clit. I said bigger clit leads to more pleasure, he then showed shape of my sharp V with his hand. Then, I said wanna pay for plastic surgery hahaha… he said no don’t do anything down there. Then he paused and said ( like thinking super hard) it’s a “ new challenge” I was shocked, the next day, I confronted him saying that other guys said it is pretty and that I saw a few things on his penis ( he had herpes looking things on his penis) but didn’t say anything. He said “ I wasn’t trying to make you feel weird- it’s very pretty. Sorry if it came off wrong. “ after that I saw a OBYGN and was told “ the hood is above average but should not be a problem for intimacy” I mean if it was that bad why he came multiple times. He could have just ended. Or if he is a good person why he criticized that way just after sex ( yes, he said it after sex when we were still naked) my question is what he mean? What does tell about his personality? Should i trim the clit?