Struggling with hopelessness about the state of the world

I am young (22 years old), and for the past couple of years I have been extremely worried about many things. One of my biggest concerns is the deterioration of the world. Our Earth is becoming more and more polluted, people are growing increasingly divided, and democracies are weakening. I could go on and on. It makes me feel deeply sad and hopeless.

I am moved by the Bodhisattva vow. I think it is a beautiful aspiration, and I try to live by it. However, I find that my worries quickly take over. This makes me feel disappointed in myself because I genuinely could do more. I could be more compassionate, more generous, and a better Buddhist. Yet because of this hopelessness, I often become lazy and unmotivated. How can I vow to save all sentient beings and end all delusions if this is how the current state of the world makes me feel?

I also feel disconnected from the world. Perhaps, throughout my life, I have unconsciously avoided truly connecting with it out of fear. Because of this, I feel lonely, and that loneliness seems to make my emotions even stronger.

I know this is a somewhat disconnected rant, and I hope it does not bring anyone else down. That is not my intention. How can I overcome this sense of hopelessness in a Buddhist way? How can I cultivate compassion and continue walking the Bodhisattva path without becoming overwhelmed by the suffering I see in the world?

Thank you for reading my post, and my best wishes to you all.

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u/Hoyamo — 6 days ago

Question for the people who went on a Buddhist Pilgrimage

Hi everyone! I'd really love to visit Buddhist pilgrimage sites. Since a trip like this is both costly and time consuming, I was wondering. If you've visited a pilgrimage site, what was your experience like? Did you find it beneficial to your practice?

I am not only referring to the major pilgrimage sites in India. I am also interested in any other places that are connected to Buddhism that you particularly enjoyed or found meaningful.

Thank you for sharing your experience!

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u/Hoyamo — 7 days ago

Best and most memorable restaurants me and my dad visited during our Japan trip.

I just got back from my first trip to Japan. My dad and I went for 3 weeks, and it was one of the most memorable experiences I've ever had. I genuinely hope everyone gets the chance to experience a trip like it at least once.

We packed so much into those three weeks that I could probably write a book about everything we saw and did. But instead, I wanted to share some of our favourite restaurants and cafés. We both love food, and these were the places that really stood out, and we remember. I added Google Maps links for convenience. If you're planning a trip to Japan and don't know where to eat, hopefully this list gives you some inspiration!

Tokyo

Kyoto Ramen Morry (Ginza)
This was our very first dinner after arriving in Japan. We were jet lagged, overstimulated, and just wanted something comforting. It turned out to be the perfect start to the trip. The ordering process is tourist-friendly, the service is fast, and both the spicy miso ramen and the tonkotsu (pork bone broth) ramen were excellent. At around ¥1,200 per bowl, it's also decent value for Ginza.

https://maps.app.goo.gl/F27zKrubootc7a2X6

Akiba League (Akihabara)
If you want to experience Japanese baseball but couldn't get tickets to a game, this sports bar is a fantastic alternative. We watched Japan vs. Australia in the World Baseball Classic here alongside locals and friendly staff. The atmosphere was amazing and made for a really memorable evening.

https://maps.app.goo.gl/sSJNMnTwAf8Jntbc7

Kadokichi (Tokyo Skytree Station)
A small kushiyaki izakaya near Tokyo Skytree serving delicious grilled skewers at very reasonable prices.

https://maps.app.goo.gl/Umkt1qLKCPjEwvh57

HachinoYa
Located near the Kabuki-za Theatre, this cosy little restaurant specialises in Japanese curry. Rich, comforting, and absolutely worth stopping by if you love Japanese curry like me.

https://maps.app.goo.gl/6v2zJvXUjSvL4rJAA

Osaka

Kissa Garo (Shinsekai)
A tiny breakfast café run by the sweetest elderly couple. Breakfast here genuinely felt like being cooked for by your grandparents. Their breakfast set (toast, egg, jam and coffee) is only ¥400. Incredible value.

https://maps.app.goo.gl/WqaH8KV4fE5QtLoj6

Oyuki
Without a doubt, the restaurant with the best atmosphere of our entire trip. This sushi bar has been run by the same hilarious sushi chef for over 45 years, and he had the entire restaurant laughing all evening. The sushi and sashimi sets are just ¥1,000 each, making it a good value as well.

https://maps.app.goo.gl/YyfDWfXqV7Kywmvo6

Kyoto

Manten Ramen Shop
Their mala oil beef kamatama udon was one of the best meals I had in Japan. I still have no idea exactly what they put in it, but it was absolutely incredible and one of those dishes you keep thinking about long after your trip.

https://maps.app.goo.gl/D9yWrvKmGF9w5xSNA

Kanazawa

Ōmichō Market
Sometimes you don't need a specific restaurant recommendation. Just head to the seafood market, find a stall that looks good, and enjoy some of the freshest seafood you'll ever eat.

https://maps.app.goo.gl/9PcTHjok3bGvoQnz8

Takayama

Bistro Mémoire
Definitely on the expensive side by Japanese standards, but it served the best steak I've ever eaten. If you're looking to treat yourself while visiting Takayama, this is the place.

https://maps.app.goo.gl/hr2cJ26ASJmeZu4Y8

Matsumoto

Sushiten
Our favourite sushi of the entire trip. This small, family-run restaurant serves incredibly fresh sushi in a warm, welcoming atmosphere. If you're visiting Matsumoto, don't miss it.

https://maps.app.goo.gl/TzLi4WSg9ZUczhHf7

If you've made it this far, thanks for reading! Japan completely exceeded my expectations, and these are just a few of the places that made the trip so special. I hope this helps someone discover their next favourite meal.

u/Hoyamo — 8 days ago