Serious School Help Needed.
So I [14F] am in a tough stop and need advice. Like seriously. Sorry if this gets long, but i really need to get this off my chest as this is serious.
I [14F] am a high school. There's this guy [14f] named Benjamin, who in my leadership class.
He's inappropriate towards many, and I'm his main target. I've known Benjamin since September of 2025. He was actually pretty chill. Pretty funny. Used to be his film director for his YouTube channel. That all changed this year.
For context: We live in the West Coast on the United States. The state is California.
He used to date my friend, but they broke up because he was too clingy. Too inappropriate. The final straw was when he began to text her inappropriate comments. She dumped his ass and started dating someone else, who treats her better.
He was, understandably sad and said he'll never find love again. And instead of channeling that energy into proving himself, he began to spread lies about my friend, saying she 'cheated' on him and he caught my friend and another guy together, WHICH IS COMPLETELY FALSE. There was no evidence to prove his claim of cheating.
That's when he took it too far.
Then, he began making inappropriate comments toward other couples. One boy, [I'll call him P] was pissed and told him it was nasty.
Eventually, he began to make comments towards me. He calls me things like 'honey,' and takes off his sweater in front of me and asks 'you like what you see'
My friend tried to report it. Brought evidence. Screenshots of text messages. Even other students benjamin was inappropriate to. Even a video of himself....doing you know what.
Despite all this evidence, out school and Title IX dismissed her 'due to a lack of evidence' and 'not being serious enough'
As soon as that happened, he got worse. Went back to his old ways. My friend had enough and like 6 weeks ago, she, her boyfriend, and 2 friends went to confront Benjamin to tell him to stop.
They gave him an ultimatum - shut up or get beat up. He apologized to me, but like 3 weeks after, he went back to his old ways. He called me 'honey,' tries to hold and caress me, gets too close to my face, and no matter how many times I tell him to stop, he keeps going.
I already know the school doesn't give a fuck despite my friend showing evidence - text messages and screenshots. I'm thinking of recording his conversations and giving it to the office, but we live in a two-party consent state. And without any evidence, they can't do anything.
I'm currently typing this during 3rd period - which is geometry. I am just tired and need advice. What do i do.
Is this a legal issue or a personal issue? I just need to get it off my chest and vent. I am so done.