Memoirs or personal accounts about British colonial rule?
I'm not looking for some kind of textbook history of the British conquest of India, or even British rule of India. I have read and heard enough about that. I want to read personal writings, memoirs, short stories, or real historical records written by people who lived at that time, which can give me a flavour for what that period of time was like when the colonial powers ruled over India. What the gora sahibs were like, what the royal families and princely states were like, how an average person felt about the British Raj.
I want to read about how these people from different walks of life: soldiers and peasantry and upperclassmen had come to accept these foreign rulers, and how the interactions between the whites and the locals went. Not just about the conflicts and the injustices, of which there are many, but about the daily lives of the people who lived here at that time, both from the perspective of the colonizers and of the Indians.
Any recommendations?