Should I move to china to study in an international school after sec 3 or after national exams?
Backround information is that both my parents are divorced and im currently living with my father in SG while my mom is living in Anhui. I have a very rocky relationship with my father and I have caused a lot of danger to myself because of mental distress from his treatment, which I'm not gonna go through here lol. The main thing is that he's abusive.
My father just sat me down for a talk, i don't remember much haha but the main thing is that he knows im really unhappy with living with him. He gave me a choice to go back to China with my mother if I'm really unhappy here, and he's not threatening me this time unlike all the other times he's brought this up to me... Differences in education systems isn't going to be much of a problem for me since I'm most definitely going to be sent to an international school.
I'm ready to commit since I don't want to torture my future self by dragging my misery on for longer. But should I do it at the end of sec 3 or after my o levels? The school im probably gonna go to is CISH btw since i used to go there from grade 1 to 2. It offers Canadian, IB and dual diplomas, so is it better to take my national exams or not if it's providing me with these diplomas already?