u/Ilovekiwiii

Currently in my first wlw relationship as I recently realized I think I’m a lesbian (previously thought I was bi). I feel very attracted to my girlfriend and I never felt that being with men however I get a ton of intrusive thoughts such as “what if I’m not gay and I’m leading her on” or “what is she’s not gay and she doesn’t even like me like that or find me attractive” or “what if being gay isn’t even a thing and we’ve been brainwashed into thinking it’s normal” I have no idea how to stop this because I’m so very sure I do like her and I’m not sure why I question it so much ☹️