Interpretation help please
Context: This guy is a very reserved and closed off person. He rarely talks about emotional stuff, and if he does, he's very lowkey about it. The other day, i texted him at night to see if we could meet. If he cant, he normally doesn't even answer, but this time he did and told me he was so depressed he didn't think he could get it up. I asked if he was okay and he started opening up which was really rare. All of the sudden he stops answering. And two days later, i decided to text him checking on him. Im kinda scared he's going to pull away bc he got vulnerable and hes kind of a bitch about it.
Two questions.
For question 1: ¿is he going to pull away for a while?
Hermit on reverse, 4 of pentacles, 8 of wands.
This makes me think he needs to stay away for a while, it checks out because he's really cautious with his space. But i feel he's not in a stable place of isolation. He might feel the need to get out of it kinda impulsively, specially bc od the 8 of wands, I feel hes going to oscilate in between guarding himself, keeping his emotions cool, but also, he's going to randomly need to get out of it. So to me, hes not going to pull away completely, just be kinda unstable with deciding what he wants and what he does.
Question 2: how does this message affect our relationship?
2 of cups, 9 of pentacles, the magician on reverse.
With this one, I feel we're going to be more open with each other and connected emotionally than before. But there's still a need to keep ourselves independent, which i think we're going to balance with time. He'll still be pretty unstable and mutable, not knowing exactly what he wants or what he should do.