u/Impressive_Cash_6536

After a string of app first dates that didn’t stir anything within me, I’ve come to realize that I require a slow burn to feel attracted to someone. However, my job consumes most of my time and I don’t really have the opportunity to really meet people outside of work as a result. Thus, I’m kind of forced to use hinge, but when I go on the date there’s not really a spark. I don’t feel one, and although I act interested during the date, I think women are good at picking up that I’m not. What should a guy in my situation do?