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even manchild Yogesh has said sorry to Akanksha but not once heard Akanksha say sorry ONCE to anyone about a single thing.

she didn’t even know about the cheating, staying together at that point. The meeting and lies were enough for her to step away. that’s how much of self respect she had. as per her blue balls segment, she is the only guy she has been very initmate with and she even lived with him. yet she chose her self respect and to walk away.

this is true self respect. and I hope girls learn from this

ps- I wasn’t a fan of the exposing phone call etc. but in hindsight that’s NOTHING compared to what he did to her.

that Yogesh and Akanksha did before the finals. with their accomplices Sorab and Niharika.

because they know that’s not the popular side and we are seeing what’s happening to people going against Akanksha. and still choosing to take the side of the person cheated on.

it is true. everyone was hanging out with Yogesh and Akanksha and making them meet secretly, shipping them - Sorab, shubhangi, to some extent gullu rohit suzzane etc. everyone knew about Yogesh and Akanksha dancing together, listening to romantic songs. At the same time she has been putting up with national hate, seeing her bf blush for another girl, seeing another girl blush for her boyfriend and shade her on podcasts.

the worst of it all was in the finale, Yogesh completely burned down their relationship to Ashes by almost implying that he never wanted to be with her and was with her forcefully. how does a girl ever move on from this? I actually woke up last night disturbed thinking how a guy completely destroyed a girls self worth in front of the nation. of course pre planning was wrong on both their part but was it necessary to say over and over that he never wanted to be with her. with zero regret. atleast have some humanity

it’s obvious ak was crying cause Yogesh and Ruru got back together because she thought it would be them together lol

also Yogesh picked Ruru on national tv and was so into her. ak obv knew that …

and they showed up for her when she was surrounded by hate and only hate no love. so it was not clout they did it for..

Guys this is the biggest narrative setting of allll time. ak outdid herself

Here is the series of events

ruru revealed on the show with proofs that they have met at shubhangis place along with hotel room

step 1: We found the phone in the story very obviously placed with the hanging thing. anyone would see it. just so that people don’t miss it Akanksha even spoke in the background (was there no plug point in the room?)

step 2: ak called paps and said reality is so simple I’m just in the room in the same house and my phone is charging. I don’t have any “proofs” (no one asked for proofs but using the same word as ruru as a part of the narrative setting )AGAIN and AGAIN using the word ”proof” so dismiss the importance of proofs

step 3: completely normalising them hanging out in shubhangis house by step 1 and 2 as if it’s no big deal at alllll

now when the story actually comes out audiences will be like this was no big deal like aku didi said. we don’t need ruru’s “proof praf” because it’s actually simple and casual. So they set a narrative and casually go from denying meeting to acting like its the most normal thing ever

bunch of LIARS. Ruru is the true victim here.

PS: dont fall for these narratives

“ Hanging out with a guy who left you twice once on national TV for another girl, who you insulted over and over on reels, called a manchild, gained a following cult based on his betrayal, after insulting his ex every opportunity you got and claiming your self respect is greater than a MV with him is actually insane behaviour”

same thing they did with Diksha the way the spoke about her underarms and smell.

Ruru and her friend - rurus friend just did the action and ruru said marwaegi or somethibg

but shubhangi and Akanksha took it to a whole new level of insult. how are people comparing it to be the same ? I don’t get it.

and the way they talk about ruru is so insulting - sorab ak and shubhangi. no matter who it is you cannot talk like that about someone

I’m sure that language barrier makes a difference to be able to connect with people and he said all his friends aka chaksh and harshit were sent home. all the boys make fun of him in Hindi. Not disregarding sadaf at all I feel bad for what happened to her but this was his way to cut off all expectations outside the show. We know a lot of couples have to be together to milk the fame but he just didn’t wanna do that

1. he and niharika both said it’s ruru’s fault she came on the show. they’re acting as if ruru broke up Yogesh and Akanksha and Yogesh is completely innocent. Sorab said Akanksha is not ruru that she’s happy about Yogesh and ruru breka up cause she’s not a home breaker like ruru

2. Sorab said Yogesh is with ruru because he’s scared of her and she has something on him??? ewww. not that Yogesh made a choice in love that we could all see on the damn show

3. Akanksha still likes Yogesh! which I understand but the way she and all these people are phrasing it is that ruru is the problem the villain who came and broke them up

4. Sorab constantly saying Yogesh was way happier with Akanksha. YES because it was the start of something with no pressure of being serious. zero respect for a girl who he lived with

im just fuming at them and all these yoganksha shippers who are acting like ruru was the only issue in this situation

here’s why yoganksha ship is so wrong

1. Yogesh made his choice clearly on the show and he was sure of it. we can see how into ruru he is in their personal moments.

2. they also had a fall out after the show but he still went to Urfis party to convince ruru. Yoganksha ship was happening at the time he could have stayed single but he chose ruru.

3. Yogesh and Akanksha both behaved shady by blushing on lives. if a guy has left me and I’ve been hurt, will i ever blush on his name? Never. Akanksha had more self respect to uphold here which she didn’t

4. lying to your partner and meeting or starting a relationship with someone is being glorified by yoganksha fans and partly by MTV editors with all the choice of music on yoganksha moments. it’s absurd the message we are trying to convey here

5. What is wrong with akanksha and Yogesh - Akanksha posting the same song as Yogesh and saying started liking red again. if it’s not a coincidence then I have no respect for Akanksha. you were rejected twice by the guy and you still say you have a soft corner and glorify his actions by holding ruru as theproblem and not Yogesh.

6. last but not the least- if a guy left me on national TV i would not seek out his best friends to befriends with. this was a point she was trying to prove to Yogesh and even ruru that she was always the better pick and also pick of his friends. Again trying to portray ruru as the problem rather than Yogesh.

if the youth wants yoganksha then it’s just completely wrong on so many levels because you are supporting a lying guy by saying deep down he has a soft heart but an evil dark girl took him away and brainwashed him and he picked her cause she has anxiety and panic disorders. everyone needs to please stop doing this including the editors.

Like sir please stop. even fans have more EQ than you and have stopped shipping yoganksha. you knew the whole picture. and at the end of his live he said out of spite he is going to patch up Yogesh and Akanksha. what kind of a human are you? you want your sister to go back to a guy who publicly didn’t pick her already and you disrespected your friend’s relationship and continue to disrespect ruru? sorry sir but no one needs to do negative PR against you you have done it yourself.

dont even want to get started on the remarks made in the podcast. not apologising to Diksha and Anushka - what is this arrogance? you are so god fearing don’t you fear karma ?

what you guys have done to ruru and continue to shade her and act arrogant will come back to you.

1. Ruru had to see the boy she loved being shipped by the entire country with another girl. as a girl if I would see that, I would completely break.
2. on top of that, she had to see Yogesh and Akanksha blushing on lives, Y calling her Bhabhi and commenting on her post. he was even stalking her on their trip. if my boyfriend was stalking the girl everyone wants him to be with, i would be shattered
3. all of Yogesh’s friends suddenly flipped on her and started hanging out with Akanksha and shipping Yogesh and Akanksha while she was in the picture. all of the fans were shipping Yogesh and Akanksha when they didn’t know ruru is Yogesh’s choice but not Yogesh’s immature and inhuman friends. all splitsvilla fans have more maturity because most of them have stopped shipping Y and A after they’ve seen the full picture. but obv not ppl like Sorab Bedi and shubhangi who were getting so much buzz because of reunion. in front of her own eyes she’s seeing Akanksha all over Yogesh’s friends and I’m sure that’s heartbreaking
4. after all this she finally felt like Yogesh loves her but then only to find out he secretly met Akanksha and fake swore on her life
5. this was all happening when she was receiving a level of hate from the nation that we cannot even comprehend and because her entry on the show had not happened she could not even say her side of the story
6. even if it was Pre planned which firstly she cannot dictate if MTV would call her or not but if it was Pre planned, it was on Yogesh then to not break someone’s heart since he was waiting for ruru. if Yogesh didn’t form a connection and then ruru entered then Pre planning obviously wouldn’t be an issue at all right
7. the way people like Sorab Bedi treat her and talk about her is so wrong and his arrogance in not realising what he’s doing is just preposterous. even a lot of yoganksha shippers stepped back because they can see the complex emotions and the strong feelings of Yogesh and ruru.

My heart goes out to ruru and so much wrong that has happened to her on the show, outside and at the hands of Akansha’s fans. some of the people like Kiara and Asmita and insider Simran have not even received a fraction of hate that ruru has but they are still so affected so can we step back and really see what ruru has faced.

how you have stayed strong through this ruru is very commendable

I think we need to understand that we as a nation are almost entirely the only country that are glorify not knowing our local languages and speaking English. in all the other countries, they speak their local language and its no big deal not speaking English. We are not suppose to be necessarily speaking English as much as a language understood by the whole country or the state we live in- Hindi or our state language. people from most European or other countries don’t speak english at all and that’s ok! doesn’t make them uneducated. educated people could have studied in Hindi medium as well and that’s totally fine

Akanksha told Himashu that she’ll remove his two teeth and he has a girgit face. she admitted this on BYOG and this was edited out of the show. this is so sht like why cant you let audiences be unbiased. and these guys are in their 20s directing so much hate towards them from the full country without showing us the full picture is not right. yes Himanshu is wrong but not all of this actions are unprovoked and you’re painting him to be more evil than he actually is. let us snot e the reality for god sake. shame on the editors.

1. Akanksha says everywhere Yogesh is a nice person deep down so in her head she blames ruru for everything?? what sense does that make??

2. sorab said she has never had a problem with him hanging with Yogesh and also Susanne follows Yogesh but she made Susan unfollow ruru???

3. ruru always blames Yogesh and doesn’t trash talk ak but ak has called her a negative dark energy even before the Sorab live.

makes no sense. seems like she’s allset to forgive Yogesh and go back to him. it’s downright disgusting and I hope young girls don’t idolize this behaviour where the men can be forgiven but hold the other woman wrong.