How to spice up post-op sex life?
I am looking for ideas, toys and tips. I am 1,5 years post op, full metoidioplasty with testicular implants.
It’s really my girlfriend’s question. My dick is too short for a satisfactory PIV sex which is a bit sad, because I would love to be able to come like that. I am happy with oral and hand jobs, but she wants to do more stuff to me. We are each other’s first and only sexual partner, and we are clueless what’s more (if there is more) to do with my anatomy. I’ve got mixed feelings about prosthetic. Packers used to alleviate some parts of my dysphoria (no bulge), but also made it worse (reminding me that I am lacking in this area). We are open to toys that are not realistic. I mean, we are fine with a realistic shape, but the flesh color is a dealbreaker.
Thank you for all your answers in advance!