I told my girlfriend I missed her and I wish I never sent that text
Things between me and my girlfriend haven’t been the same lately. We still talked, but it felt colder somehow. Less calls, shorter replies, less excitement.
But even with all that, I still missed her badly.
Last night I was scrolling through old pictures of us and thinking about how different everything used to feel. So I finally texted her:
“I miss you.”
Simple. Honest. That was it.
She opened the message almost immediately, and for a moment I actually smiled because I thought maybe she missed me too.
Then she replied:
“You better don’t miss me. I’m not interested anymore.”
I don’t even know how to explain how hard that hit me.
It wasn’t just the words. It was how cold they felt. Like she had already emotionally left the relationship a long time ago and I was the last person to realize it.
I kept rereading the message hoping it would somehow sound different the next time.
It didn’t.
I typed a response like five different times and deleted every single one. In the end, I just locked my phone and sat there staring at the ceiling for almost an hour.
Crazy how someone can go from being your comfort person to making you feel completely unwanted with one sentence.