Hi, I just started a new job that I really enjoy. I was assigned a colleague who became my supervisor. Unfortunately, she’s been very critical of me from the very beginning. She constantly belittles me, telling me I have a bad attitude (I’m too calm and too nice to clients), and even though I’ve received positive feedback from clients, she keeps insisting that’s not possible, because she does not have this experience with them. She criticizes me for everything I do; she constantly tells me that my calm, soothing voice annoys her and that I’ll never get anywhere acting this way. When we were alone in the office, she told me that she beat up a girl in school so badly that she gave her a concussion, and that I remind her of that girl. She also made fun of me for not having a partner. I’ve told her several times that I don’t like the way she talks to me, she always stops for a moment and then starts again. Yesterday she texted me again saying how much she hates my voice, and today she needed something from me, and when I asked for details, she started yelling that I should know that myself. I’ve tried to be really nice to her, but it’s not working. I am seriously thinking to leave.
u/Independent_Sky_7714
u/Independent_Sky_7714 — 17 days ago