u/InevitableObvious369

Pain 3 days after sex

Hi! I am 17, and recently had sex on Sunday.

It was my first time, and unfortunately, the boy who I engaged in the act with “does not like using condoms,” so we did not use one. I know that’s not the smartest idea for me to go through with, but I am getting tested in a couple weeks, so it’ll all be handled, and I’ll make sure not to do that again.

Maybe this information could be crucial to the advice im looking for, so that’s why I am telling you, but on to my main point, ever since then (today is Wednesday), my vagina has been REALLY sore. He went really hard, and forced his way in instead of partaking in more foreplay since this was our second attempt at trying to get him to fit inside of me completely.

This hurt a LOT, and even though he was trying to comfort me, he never really tried to slow down, even once intercourse started. This did feel good the more we went on, but the next day, I realized he should’ve gone slower.

Monday morning, I woke up with nothing besides a lower abdominal stomach ache.

Tuesday morning, I woke up with even more stomach pain, a bloated stomach, and I bled quite a bit. The bleeding stopped after about an hour, but the stomach pain lingered into today (Wednesday).

The pain today is much more tolerable, but I am still bloated, and my vagina is really sore.

Could this pain be from my period that is approaching next Tuesday, or is this all in relation to the rough intercourse?

Any advice helps since I am not very comfortable coming to my mother with this since she does not know I am sexually active…

NOTABLE INFORMATION: I do not have any change in discharge (it is still clear, with no odor), my vagina didn’t experience any changes in smell, I peed about 3 hours after sex and showered following after that while cleaning around my vulva with only water, no extreme bleeding, and there are no bumps or physical changes to the appearance of my labia/downstairs region in general.

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