Seriously how do you make friends (Girls) ?
It's embarrassing how desperate this is going to sound but I really need your help.
I am 20F uni and I haven't had any close friends for 4 years straight (since I separated from my childhood friends). It makes me sad because I see groups of friends or duos, especially in my school, but I am always alone.
NGL, I am very picky. To the point that if I don't like their mentality or what they talk about, I will just ghost them. I think that's the mistake that made me end up with no friends. There have been a lot of times where I see a girl who is pretty and smart, and we have things in common, and I wish I could be her friend but I never approach her.
The only one I talk to is my bf; he's both my best friend and boyfriend. But it's just not the same as female friendship.
Even though I am introverted, I tried to make an effort in my first year at this school. I approached two girls in my class, but they ended up talking bad about me behind my back and spreading rumors about me dating some guy even tho they know I am in a relationship.
What am I doing wrong? I feel like whether I keep to myself or put myself out there, no one wants to be my friend. I feel like I forgot how to interact with girls (besides small talk).
How do you make female friends? Any advice would be very much appreciated.