First Big Poly Heartache Since Kids
I know with love comes risks, and I love big on those rare occasions I do fall in love. Long story short, I am in love with someone with whom I wanted and imagined a future where we were still connected. I also have a lovely nesting partner with whom I have kids. I can see heartbreak coming in my non-nesting partnership (dynamics have changed that make this less healthy for me— and I’m starting to see they may not change). I’m so worried about how that will impact my household, kids, spouse. Losing this person and our time together/having to walk away to protect my sanity is going to feel like a part of my sky is falling. Does anyone have advice after going through something similar? I don’t want my whole house to have to go through this with me.