u/JournalistSea6639

What to do?

Hey everyone.

I am 18(F),. Turning 19 this aug.

I did my class 12th last year, with PCMB.

And,.

Honestly speaking,.

I never really looked at what to do after 12th as my main focus was on boards only.

I am elder child, I don't have any guidance.

So,.

Last year, I decided to took drop for NEET🙂

Yup,.

Cause , I didn't filled cuet,.

I just filled only neet.

And all my school life, i never heard of anything except neet.

So, not finding any way, I decided to took drop.

Joined a online batch.

I didn't wanted to join offline and waste my parents money,.cause I was not sure of this NEET thing from the start, but not having any path, I opted for drop.

I studied as much as I could possibly pull.

But,.

Suddenly.,.in the Feb of 2026, i suddenly start growing my interest towards psycology.

And i have observed that,.

I always had that thing for psycology but i thinked that it can be only done with NEET only.

But, i always had that thing of helping people., listening people, motivate them, solve their mental issues.

But,. I had neet to give.

I give it ( i know, re neet is happening, let's not dwell on that).

But, my interest for being a psycologist is still there.

But,.🙂

My parents want me to start preparing for SSC too

Which I had planned that I will start it's preparation in 1st year,.

But, here I am.

They are saying ki you should try every opportunity.

I said I want to do college.

They said, ki college karna hi kafi nahi hota.

I understand.

Par,.

Mujhe smjh nahi aa raha.🙂🙂

Kabhi drop, NEET, CUET, and paramedical ka bhi form bhara hai,.

And the worst part,.

MERA MANN SSC dene ka bhi kar raha hai ( which my parents recommended).

I don't kya, mein kya karungi 🙂

it feels like i switch paths way too quick.

Bus, kisi ne recommend kar diya, toh vahi karne ka Mann karne laga.🙂.

I feel like all walls are closing upon me.🥹

Kya karu, kya nahi, smjh hi nahi aa raha.

I am certain, i will get college.

Par, agar gov job nikal gayi toh, mere psycology ka kya hoga.?

And agar gov job nahi nikli toh mere secured and stable career ka kya hoga?

I did have thing for gov jobs too.🙂

I have even heard psycology mein itna career nahi hai India mein.

🙂🙂

My thoughts and opinions alter by the opinions of people, way too quick.

I need a genuine help and advice to figure it out.

Please anyone help out here.🙂🙂

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u/JournalistSea6639 — 6 days ago