I need opinions pleaseeee
Hi so I attended a workshop offered by my city regarding sexual and reproductive health recently, and they basically went over female/male anatomy, contraceptives, birth controls, etc. And I started feeling so ashamed of myself. I don't know why, because I'm an avid feminist and truly don't think sex is needed, but I have people telling me that being 23 and a virgin and never experiencing a relationship isn't normal.
I don't know how to feel about it. I try to cut myself some slack because I went through a lot of traumatic experiences during my childhood and I'm on medication which a side effect can include decreased libido, but I would like other women's opinions.
Should I worry about this? I did try having sex less than a month ago, but when he went under I lost all desire, especially when he kept trying to penetrate despite me saying no. I don't think he ever did, if anything maybe a tip, but that definitely doesn't count as sex imo.
I don't know how to feel. I know it's not that big of a deal but I feel like I'm missing out on something.