Will I regret my black dress
(Sorry but this will be long) I’ve always imagined myself in a white dress but many people have stated they picture me wearing black and that it’s more “me”. Yes I have more of a gothic style but I always thought I’d regret wearing black because it wouldn’t feel like a “wedding dress” I feel like most black wedding dresses I see could also just be fancy black dresses but you always think wedding when you see an white gown. The only black dress I’ve ever really loved was this one I saw on an instagram reel like 5 years ago. It didn’t have a name or designer or anything. It’s just beautiful but never thought I’d find it till I got engaged and my mom was determined to find it. Turns out it was a dress from 2016 and only one store in California had it and after a 3 hour drive I tried it on and I fell in love. It’s more beautiful than I can imagine but now that I’ve been thinking and seeing more dresses online I worry I’m gonna regret not wearing white. I’m worried I’ll miss out on the feeling of being in that white dress and feeling like a bride. It also doesn’t help that my future sister in law’s first comment was “since you’re wearing black that means I get to wear white” which idk just got me thinking about if I should just wear white after all so no matter what I’ll look like a bride. I’m worried I’m letting too many opinions get in my head as a chronic people pleaser HELP