u/Key_Kale_1301

Ciao raga
Apro un tema un po' specifico e per chi ha vissuto diverso tempo all'estero, ma è di Torino.
Io (M, 29, straight) non ho mai scopato molto nella mia città. Iniziato molto tardi, ma, anche da più grandicello, erano davvero occasioni rare.
All'estero... bah, il contrario. Ragazze che fanno la prima mossa, che la lanciano. E davvero, solo per la vita passata all'estero ho fatto tante esperienze sessuali.

È capitato anche a qualcuno di voi o sono il solo?
Non me lo so ben spiegare

Hi everyone
I wanted to move to Dublin so much. I'm studying between Italy (where I come from) and Ireland and now I have to stay here for a year and a half.

I imagined a lively and entertaining city, but, most of all, I expected nice and friendly people - mainly from UCD, because I work there. I had really high hopes, I couldn't wait to leave all behind me in Italy and start anew in Ireland.

The truth was in facts completely different.
I'm here since February and I didn't build a SINGLE good, strong, meaningful relationship. It honestly has never happened to me before. It seems to me that eveyone is completely isolated, they mind their own business, they already have their social groups and they completely don't care about you. May, in particular, was harsh for my mood.

Also, the clubs scene is the worst. Everything closes at 3am, the techno they play is bad, just hard techno, nothing as Italy, France or Germany.

All of this in order to pay rent A LOT and rot in loneliness and depression?
I'm really thinking to get the fuck out as soon as possible, because I'm getting mentally ill here.

I don't know if anyone has lived the same experiences. Would love to hear your stories. Thanks in advance.