My ex is constantly projecting
Me F20 and my ex M22 had been together for literal years. Highschool sweethearts and we were the center of each others universe. He lived with me for years throughout high school due to family complications and we had been inseparable for a very long time.
About a year ago we split because of management issues and he promised me that he we would get back together and move states once he had things together. The date came and went and he’s still in the same city as me and we haven’t spoken at all.. i send messages from time to time I still pay his phone service monthly because it’s cheaper to do it in bulk and whenever I try and stop thinking about him and focus on me I start to have dreams about him finding me in the astral and talking about things.
Last time he says that he’s stressed out about life and always wants to be around me, but is feeling sad about us and it’s taking him time to focus and manage emotions/money/life.
We were so codependent for years and ofc I still have feelings for him and I’m on the line of moving on but these types of astral experiences really pivot my progression and I’m not sure what I should b thinking about this.
I feel like I should maybe just focus on me and let him do him but again, every time I try and do this I start having the most vivid aware lucid dreams that we are actually communicating and they get more and more real as this progresses and he doesn’t even talk IRL
I need spiritual advice I need dating advice or something. A big part of me wants to just let things b and I don’t mind paying for his phone bc I know that he needs it to a degree and it’s actually cheaper for me to do so.
I just need to know what this means.