u/Kindly_learning_7906

Hey guys, I'm hoping I can get some helpful opinions.

I've been seeing a guy for a few years now. He's now seriously talking about marriage. This guy mupostori ( johani masowe) and I grew up as a devotee Methodist.

He's educated etc, but he's beliefs are so backwards to me. He doesn't say anything when I wear trousers makeup etc. but he believes women shouldn't do that. He said he doesn't want his kids going to Methodist with me.

I'm so conflicted, I really love him, he treats me the best!!! He's so kind and caring, but his beliefs 😭😭😭 has anyone ever been in a similar situation? If so how did you deal with it? Or does anyone have any wise words for me😭

Guys I'm really struggling, I feel so overwhelmed. My room right now has clothes all over and is not smelling fresh.

I admire people who keep their houses clean at all times. I really desire to get married and have children at some point but I can barely keep my space clean with just myself. What more when I have a husband and children 😭😭

I just want to learn how to be a clean person. I want my room especially to always be clean. Right now I don't even know where to start off I don't know why I'm so lazy when it comes to cleaning 😭😭

I am 28F, it's funny that when it comes to work / school I'm not lazy at all. But keeping my space clean is seeming like it's beyond me. I really want to be that clean girl all round. I'm that type of girl who comes out of the house looking so well dressed and put together but the mess I'd have left in my house is just embarrassing.

Please help😭😭