Pre-341 call with trustee left me uncomfortable. Is this normal?
I spoke with my trustee over the weekend ahead of my 341 meeting on May 20. He explained that he contacts everyone, whether represented or pro se, to clear up issues beforehand so the meeting stays brief.
During the call, we reviewed my bank statements and he questioned several transactions, including money my best friend sent me that I used for car repairs. I recently had ongoing repairs due to coolant and oil leak issues. Some payments went to a larger repair shop with visible charges, while others were paid through Zelle to a smaller independent mechanic. I have invoices documenting the repairs and offered to provide them.
What made me uncomfortable was that, despite my explanation and proof, he repeatedly implied the mechanic was my boyfriend rather than focusing on the documentation. He also made comments about my VA disability and my age, saying most people he sees receiving disability are older, which felt unnecessary and unrelated.
I understand trustees have to verify information and perform due diligence, but it felt less like clarification and more like he was trying to catch me in a lie even after I offered supporting proof.
He also questioned why I had not surrendered my vehicle, though I never stated that I refused to surrender it. He requested payoff information from Santander, and while I was unable to obtain it immediately, I did provide the settlement/reaffirmation offer showing a reduced interest rate. Given the amount already invested into repairs and my need for reliable transportation for work and my daughter’s school, keeping the vehicle would make the most practical sense if approved. Otherwise, I understand I may have to proceed with a ride-and-pay arrangement depending on the court’s decision.
At this point, I’m mainly hoping the 341 meeting goes smoothly and concludes without further issues.