u/Krispenedladdeh542

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I know that it’s time but I’m so conflicted.

First pick is before starting hims. The rest are after about three months of hims. Obviously it’s not doing anything so I’m probably gonna stop taking it. I know that it looks like I’m desperately clinging to the hair but I can’t bring myself to shave it. I am getting married in about a month. The wedding actually motivated me to lose weight bc I hated seeing pictures of myself overweight. I didn’t want to hate looking at myself in my wedding photos. The problem is now instead of hating my weight in photos I hate my hairline. I can’t decide if I should shave it before the wedding or not. My fiance says I shouldn’t and I don’t want to go against her wish but also I worry that I will hate my wedding photos forever if all I see is how balding I am. If I explained that to her she’s understand and wouldn’t push back on it so that’s not an issue. I am also worried that I have a very weird head shape and that I’ll look ridiculously lumpy and gross bald. There’s a lot of factors. I guess I am looking for advice or just a suggestion thanks for reading.

u/Krispenedladdeh542 — 12 hours ago