u/LakediverTx

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I picked up my first foster yesterday afternoon. I got her from BARC (the City of Houston animal shelter), so we don't know a lot about her. Everything went pretty well. She's very sweet and wants lots of affection. She loves fetch and playing with squeaky toys. Her housetraining appears to pretty solid - no accidents at all so far, and she does her business as soon as we go outside.

We took her on her first walk last night. It went fairly well, lots of sniffing, some pulling but not too bad. It was fairly late at night, so there weren't many people out and about. But there were two incidents that I'm a little concerned about:

  1. A man walked by a few feet from us, and she immediately tensed up. Became very alert and watched him very closely, but ultimately relaxed after he passed by us.
  2. Another man was walking his dog across the street from us, right as we were approaching my house. She immediately became very alert again, watched them for a few seconds ... and then she tried to bolt after them. She did not growl or bark or any other kind of vocalization. Fortunately, we had a harness on her, and we pulled her back and got her into the house.

Obviously, I am mostly concerned about the incident with the other dog. Is there any chance that she wasn't trying to attack the other dog? Or that this is early days growing pains? Since she didn't growl, I'm not absolutely positive that it was aggressive behavior. But it does seem like the most likely scenario.

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u/LakediverTx — 18 days ago

So, I lost my girl a little over a month ago. She was nearly 15, and I'd had her since she was six months old. I've been having a hard time with it, as you can imagine. I've been missing having a dog around, but didn't want to commit to anything permanent yet, so we decided to try fostering.

We picked up our foster dog today. She's really sweet, well behaved, loves to play. And she's attaching to both of us really fast ... She doesn't want to let either one of us out of her sight. But ... The grief from losing my girl is hitting me really hard again. Like seeing this other dog run around her house, play with her toys, lay in her bed ... It just feels really weird, and it's actually making me miss my girl even more. Is this normal? Do I just need to give myself more time? Will this feeling pass? Because I am honestly wondering if I've made a mistake, and it's way too soon for us to have another dog, even temporarily. I know she's not my girl, and I never expected her to be. But it's like my heart is breaking all over again.

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u/LakediverTx — 19 days ago

I found this cutie at the local animal control center! She's a 7 year old Staffordshire Bull Terrier mix. According to the shelter notes, she's very well behaved, walks well on a leash, is very sweet and loves to be petted. I'm very excited! Any advice for introducing a new dog to the house? We don't have any other pets ... my girl passed last month at almost 15. So it's been a LONG time since I brought home a dog for the first time lol

https://24petconnect.com/BARCadopt/Details/HSTN/A1786030

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u/LakediverTx — 20 days ago