u/Legitimate-Doctor889

▲ 36 r/ranchi

Hey , my ranchi people, so we’re currently on a family trip to the Mahakaleshwar Temple in Ujjain, and it’s been extremely stressful. My father has always been aggressive, foul mouthed and narcissistic. He constantly scolds and verbally abuses both me and my mother, and sometimes even tries to get physical. He uses his high blood pressure and diabetes as an excuse to say and do whatever he wants, no matter how hurtful or inappropriate it is.

Yesterday, things escalated again. Earlier, he went to the bathroom and didn’t come back for 45 minutes. My mother and I kept waiting, but eventually the temple security asked us to leave because it was closing. When we finally managed to contact him, he casually told us he had already left and asked us to meet him at Neelkanth Gate even though we had no idea where that was.

Later, he started verbally abusing my mother again. When I tried to stand up for her, he threatened to take off his shoe and beat me. At that point, I got extremely angry. I picked up a stone, not with the intention of hurting him, but just to make him back off. I didn’t hit him, I threw it away.

Now, he’s playing the victim and claiming that I was trying to hurt him and that return trip to ranchi is going to be so draining

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u/Legitimate-Doctor889 — 20 days ago

Hey, we’re currently on a family trip to the Mahakaleshwar Temple in Ujjain, and it’s been extremely stressful. My father has always been aggressive, foul mouthed and narcissistic. He constantly scolds and verbally abuses both me and my mother, and sometimes even tries to get physical. He uses his high blood pressure and diabetes as an excuse to say and do whatever he wants, no matter how hurtful or inappropriate it is.

Yesterday, things escalated again. Earlier, he went to the bathroom and didn’t come back for 45 minutes. My mother and I kept waiting, but eventually the temple security asked us to leave because it was closing. When we finally managed to contact him, he casually told us he had already left and asked us to meet him at Neelkanth Gate even though we had no idea where that was.

Later, he started verbally abusing my mother again. When I tried to stand up for her, he threatened to take off his shoe and beat me. At that point, I got extremely angry. I picked up a stone, not with the intention of hurting him, but just to make him back off. I didn’t hit him, I threw it away.

Now, he’s playing the victim and claiming that I was trying to hurt him.

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u/Legitimate-Doctor889 — 20 days ago
▲ 2 r/ujjain

Today we went to visit mahakaleshwar temple, My father has always been aggressive, foul-mouthed, and narcissistic. He constantly scolds and verbally abuses both me and my mother, and sometimes even tries to get physical. He often uses his high blood pressure and diabetes as an excuse to justify his behavior.

He went to the bathroom and didn’t come back for 45 minutes. My mother and I kept waiting, but the temple security eventually asked us to leave because it was closing. When we finally managed to contact him, he said he had already left and told us to meet him at Neelkanth Gate but we had no idea where that was.

Yesterday, he was verbally abusing my mother again. When I tried to stand up for her since because of his own mistake we got lost at ujjain temple, then when we found him he started using very bad language,, he threatened to take off his shoe and beat me. At that moment, I got extremely angry. I picked up a boulder, not with the intention of hurting him, but to make him back off. I didn't hit him; I threw it away.

Now, he's portraying himself as the victim and claiming that I was trying to hurt him and tells me never talk to him again

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u/Legitimate-Doctor889 — 20 days ago