u/Legitimate-Line-855

Does anyone else feel like people don’t share sitters anymore? I’ve had it happen a few times where I’ll ask friends if they have anyone I can reach out to (bc I’ve exhausted all my normal options) and also been part of group chat where newer moms will ask for sitters, and it’s crickets.

I’ve shared my sitters and even current nanny’s info with multiple people, never even thought about why I wouldn’t?

I’m in the south if that’s relevant! Just want to know if this is some commonly known etiquette that I’m missing or if I’m just reading too much into it.