u/LibraryNo1302

Don't you ever wonder what life would be like if most of the world was gay and heterophobia was like the big thing and everyone was either proudly heterophobic or terrified of saying something heterophobic and gay guys would have a pet straight girl instead of the other way round

This friend of mine who keeps setting me up (or attempting to) with random people she finds, and finds out nothing about. 3 times they've not been gay, one time hes been way to young, and one time he was just insufferable. Anyway this time she's decided I should give her a list of parameters, and i have told her before that im not all that bothered about dating but bless her she forgets all the time. Anyway ive given her some vague parameters (around 16, around my height) and sent her on her way, and i doubt she'll actually find anyone but she's so sweet and kind i dont really have the heart to tell her

Idk what tag to give this but generally I just dont care about being gay anymore? Not in like an acceptance way but in like a i honestly couldn't give a shit kind of a way. I dont really care about other gay ppl either (sorry). Im not sure if there's any other gay ppl like me. I wouldnt call myself a gay person, i am a person who happens to be gay, big distinction. Not fussed on dating or meeting other gay people anymore, im really js not bothered. I'd rather be left to my own devices If im brutally honest

FUCKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK. Why does it have to be this way?

Edit: hes at least aromantic, he said hes found people attractive but not felt a romantic attraction to them, in his own words "ive never liked anyone like that"

Since 2 of the staples of this sub are gone, how long is it until we can say "back in my day there was posts everyday until they got a boyfriend! That's all in the past now..."

He asked me to play roblox with him!! We're roblox friends!! Step in the right direction if you ask me

Where are the lines between twink/twunk/hunk/chubby/default(?)

Please contribute to this important scientific research

Sincerely,

The Gayentologist (Patent pending)

Theres this guy who ive liked since like October 2024 and I know he's gay and ive even told him I like him and he said he never wants a relationship with anyone but hes probably letting me down nicely. He's completely wrong for me I know that and my friends think I hate him I don't know what to do because my heart still skips a beat whenever I see him and ive never even spoken to him in person

Im serious. I HATE ALL OF IT. Ive tried so so hard to find gay representation that I actually enjoy but I cant find it. Every time it feels forced, with boring characters and a basic plot. It always feels like them being gay is the ONLY plot point. It feels shoehorned in. Take heartstopper for example, it really feels like it was written as a straight relationship then Charlie was made a boy last minute. Nick is a basic one-note male love interest, Charlie is a basic one-note damsel in distress and standard female love interest, except he's a boy on the surface. Plot wise nothing happens. Like literally nothing. Its a boring copy paste love story.

You either get a heartstopper or heated rivalry. Ive mentioned before that heated rivalry is barely more than softcore porn. Fetish content for weird straight women to gawk at under the guise of it being inclusive or progressive.

Its come to a point now where I lose interest in something if I find out its gay, purely because I know that the gayness will be the sole plot point.

Fight me on this if you want

Im a gay guy whos not straight passing enough for me to feel I fit in with straight men but im nowhere near gay enough to fit in with straight women. I dont like other gay people, im not too fussed on relationships and I dont really have the humour of this sub either. I may be an outlier, the only one of my kind in the world. You know, its not even that lonely, it's almost peaceful

Im serious. Ive always found other gay people intensely annoying. Ive no idea why I just cant stand it. Maybe its internalised homophobia but im very much in tune with my sexuality and in principle and theory i have no issue with gay people. Its just that every time ive met another gay person ive just really really not liked them