

Independence
When were you able to be fully independent?
I’m talking bending to get the pans in the lower cabinets or reaching to get the Tupperware in the upper cabinets. Going out to get your own groceries and carrying them in. Siting on a bar stool at a kitchen bar. Bending down to put a leash on your dog and food in their bowl. I can walk just fine. I still have a slight hunch. Im nearing day 7 when my surgeon told me i can start straightening out. But the weight limit and reaching/bending restrictions are killing me. I have to remind myself not to do things because I’m only 6DPO (surgery was Monday), and I could seriously mess myself up if I tried. Anytime I feel pulling at the incision, I stop. And I haven’t tried reaching up, bending, or carrying heavy things because I know I’m not supposed to. I’m just frustrated at my lack of independence and complete reliance on others.
In all honesty, the physical part has been pretty easy. The tight feeling went away around day 3 or 4. I’ve had ab workouts that hurt more and longer. I’ve had stomach cramps from periods that have been more severe. The “pain” i have is a slight constant burning from my general stomach area. I think it is the skin on my stomach waking up because it was pretty numb when I woke up from surgery. I only feel ab pain when i do baby coughs (ugh, the amount of coughs ive suppressed) or accidentally engage my abs too much when getting up from the bed. It’s the stress of worrying about complications (is that necrosis?, am i developing a dvt?, what if i get an infection?) and the emotional/mental implications of the physical limitations that’s causing high emotions (I’ve cried 4 days in a row now 🙃). I haven’t even felt happy or excited about my results yet. I’m just scared/anxious and feel helpless.
I think my protein intake is helping the most. I’m easily getting 200 grams a day. I was eating 150 grams pre surgery due to my muscle gain goals.
Adding pics as well. First one was pre surgery (lost over 100 lbs). Second one was at my post op appointment on Thursday.