Take toddler to NYC? Need advice
Our toddler is almost 20 months. I am having second thoughts about bringing him to NYC. It would be for 6 days. We just took him to my husband’s work conference in Spain and it went very poorly. It was exhausting for me and stressful for us both. He was extremely difficult and to be honest, it really soured the trip. Now, we have a trip to NYC planned to see old friends that moved there. We planned this and bought our child a ticket months ago. Way before the Spain trip. I can’t imagine dealing with our chaotic and rowdy toddler on the plane again and dealing with the everyday chaos. It will be hot, he hates the stroller but also hates to walk, and he doesn’t do well in restaurants. My husband wants to leave him but I feel sad and worried about leaving him for that many days. He’d be with either my mom or my MIL. Well cared for, but still. I feel uneasy. What do you think? Take him or leave him?