u/MarsupialShort8612

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8 years of employment and I'm at my witts end

Hi everyone,

I've compiled all my complaints about my employer below (Yes, I used Chat GPT to help because my mind is all over the place). I know it's easy to say just quit. However, I can't find a job to pay me the same and frankly I don't think it's fair that I would have to just because the owner sucks. He should do better!

What would you do? I've invested so much waiting for a promised promotion, but it's been 5 years. I really want the promotion on my resume.

1. Lack of Functional HR Department

  • The owner’s spouse is paid to act as HR (OVERLY INFLATED SALARY) but does not perform HR duties.
  • She is rarely present in the workplace and is typically only seen once a year at the office Christmas party.
  • She passes HR responsibilities to another employee instead of handling them herself.
  • She does not respond to employee concerns or provide required updates on healthcare, 401(k), or other benefits.
  • HR has failed to address multiple serious complaints.

2. Unaddressed Misconduct by Coworkers

  • Reports of sexual harassment were ignored.
  • Reports of employees arriving to work intoxicated or high were ignored.
  • A hostile employee who became aggressive and threatened physical violence was reported, but no action was taken.
  • One problematic employee remained employed for years despite repeated complaints, creating a hostile environment.

3. Retaliation, Unequal Workload, and Damage to Professional Reputation

  • After raising concerns about fair working conditions, the employee has experienced retaliation in the form of:
    • An extremely disproportionate workload.
    • Pressure to complete work at home without compensation.
    • Being held to standards not applied to other employees.
  • Burnout concerns have been dismissed.
  • When the owner is upset, he ignores the employee entirely, disrupting communication and contributing to a retaliatory environment.
  • The owner routinely fails to respond to customers in a timely manner and then redirects them to the employee only after they have become frustrated or upset, further increasing workload and stress.
  • Due to chronic understaffing, the employee has been required to come into work while very sick, while the owner stays home to avoid getting sick himself.
  • The owner does not know how to perform basic operational tasks, making him unable to cover for sick or absent employees, which forces the employee to work even when ill.
  • The owner frequently drops work on employees at the last minute and demands it be completed immediately because he has failed to manage or complete tasks on time.
  • The owner has told major corporate clients that the employee’s work is “confusing,” despite telling the employee directly that the work is excellent, apparently to appease the customer. This misrepresentation harms the employee’s professional reputation and could damage future job opportunities with a major client.

4. Unsafe, Unprofessional, and Sexually Inappropriate Conduct

  • The owner frequently leaves for extended vacations, leaving the employee solely responsible for operations.
  • The owner publicly posts political content on the company’s business social media accounts.
  • The owner expresses political views in the office and directs them at employees, creating discomfort and tension.
  • The owner has shown employees sexually inappropriate images involving his wife and friends.
  • The owner has made sexually inappropriate comments, including statements about girlfriends leaving his home before his wife wakes up.
  • These behaviors contribute to a hostile, unprofessional, and uncomfortable work environment.

5. Unsafe Working Conditions in the Warehouse

  • Ladders are not tall enough to safely reach inventory.
  • Employees who are physically able are required to lift and carry over 50 pounds of steel while standing on top of ladder rails, creating a serious fall and injury risk.
  • These unsafe practices appear to be routine and unaddressed by management.

6. Potential Financial and Regulatory Misconduct

  • The owners allegedly write off personal expenses as business expenses.
  • Employees are required to perform multiple job roles so the owners can maintain a high personal salary while contributing minimally to operations.
  • The owner is paying his daughter a salary for a warehouse position despite her living across the country and performing no work for the company.
  • The owner appears to have largely stopped contributing to the business’s operations and shows little interest in its success, while maintaining a lavish personal lifestyle funded by the company.
  • Employees are required to take on multiple job titles and responsibilities to reduce employment costs, allowing the owners to continue drawing high compensation without equivalent work.
  • The owner attempts to avoid tariff costs by shipping parts to alternative locations for manufacturing instead of following the company’s standard procedure of having them produced in China, raising potential compliance concerns.
  • The warehouse manager is required to perform maintenance on a steam tunnel—work requiring specialized skills—without additional pay, even though previous managers were not expected to perform this type of technical labor.

Impact on Employee

  • The employee has continued working hard for years, hoping the company would improve conditions and treat staff fairly, but no meaningful changes have occurred.
  • The ongoing stress, anxiety, and constant pressure have taken a significant toll on the employee’s mental and physical health.
  • The employee was promised advancement within five years, but eight years have passed with no promotion or progress, despite increased responsibilities and workload.
  • The cumulative effect of these conditions has left the employee exhausted, anxious, and uncertain about their future, despite wanting only fair treatment and a safe, functional workplace
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