u/MaryMagdaIene

i had a friendship breakup this week and i still have her copy of days of abandonment by elena ferrante

which feels rather fitting. i’m not giving it back. i’m also reading my brilliant friend currently.

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u/MaryMagdaIene — 21 hours ago
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it’s weird knowing there are women in my city i could be close friends with and get along with but idk how to meet them

this is NOT a post asking how to make new friends or meet new ppl i KNOW HOW it just doesn’t WORK and people LOVE to harp on about HOBBY GROUPS but no one wants to CHAT. the type of women im seeking out wouldn’t even attend these types of things and yet i know they’re out there. it makes me sad that ill never meet them and i COULD have a big social group but for reasons unknown to me it cant happen. this is NOT an L post. mods pls dont delete i know there r other women who feel like this and i wanna see the replies.

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u/MaryMagdaIene — 5 days ago

i saw the film with my bf about a year ago and i loved it and it disturbed him quite a bit! i’m drawn to complex and difficult mother daughter relationships (as i have one myself). when i told my bf i was reading it he seemed perturbed (worried that ill cut myself again if i read it bc i have a history of that) he also told me that after we saw the film i told him that erika reminded me of myself (i don’t remember saying that but her relationship with her mother reminds me of myself troubled relationship) and im a masochist. i want to read the book but im scared that it will be difficult and confronting and disturbing and upsetting. please tell me why i should continue on. also i borrowed it from the library and the first two pages fell out and the book has been read many times.

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u/MaryMagdaIene — 26 days ago