"You should smile more"
To preface this interaction I had this evening, I'm a male in my 20s. I work as a host/cashier/team member at a restaurant that isn't fancy.
Tonight I was sweeping the front of the store, as it's one of my closing tasks. One of the guests being served on our patio meandered inside to find his server. As I was sweeping, he said something to me that pissed me off beyond words. "You're doing a fine, mediocre job. You should smile more."
I just hit him with the gen z stare for about 10 seconds before saying "maybe when I can afford to move out, because this job sure ain't doing it". He halfheartedly agreed and said "one day, buddy". I don't care if I'm in the south. I'm definitely not your buddy, bitch tits.
This realm of phrasing is so condescending. All of the worst managers and customers I've encountered in the service industry have this type of attitude towards younger people trying to make a living.
When I was gossiping with the crew about it, his server said that he was treating his wife terribly (in a similar manner). Surprise surprise. This industry makes me want to become a hermit and avoid everyone.
/rant over