u/Miserable_Leading216

Hey so I’m from Melbourne and I am a Pakistani Pashtun female. I’ve been finding it very difficult to find a decent Muslim practicing Pashtun guy. All the ones that I have received proposals from were two-faced, scammers and insecure. I’m losing hope in the Pashtun community, both Afghan and Pakistan. How do I convince my parents to let me marry out of my race? They want me to marry someone from overseas however I’m afraid that they just want to marry me for the visa (which is the case 80% of the time). Can anyone let me know how or what I can do to either find a decent Pashtun guy who ticks all the boxes in Melbourne?