Disgusting pathetic behavior
I’ve been watching everything going on in the lesbian community on TikTok and honestly I just can’t stay quiet anymore.
I understand grief. I understand losing a child is something no parent should ever have to go through. I have compassion for that kind of pain.
But I don’t understand how that pain becomes a lifetime excuse to hurt other people.
Bullying is bullying. Harassment is harassment. Doxxing, threats, dragging families into things, posting people’s private info, using images of people’s deceased loved ones to hurt them, making fake or AI images of children in caskets, spreading false accusations about kids… none of that is okay. Ever.
And what makes it worse is the double standard. When people finally speak up or defend themselves after being pushed too far, suddenly they’re the problem. Suddenly they’re “wrong for matching energy.” But where is that same energy when someone is constantly being targeted in the first place?
I don’t care what someone has been through, grief, trauma, mental health struggles, none of that gives you a free pass to keep hurting other people and then play the victim when people react.
And honestly? The people laughing, supporting it, or encouraging it are part of it too. That’s bullying as well. Silence and support both feed it.
At some point we have to stop pretending harm is okay just because we understand someone’s pain. You can have compassion for someone and still say their behavior is not okay.
Everyone deserves accountability. Everyone.
I am speaking on the cycle of everything that has happened through out the years. Its a cycle and clearly accountability is not a thing only the encouraging.
Remember when someone gets hurt or hurts themselves adult or child all of you that continue to laugh at all those videos will hold a guilty hand in it. Can you live with yourselves?