Combat in immersive sims
One aspect of immersive sims that disrupts, well, the immersion for me is the amount of combat. In real life, combat is extremely rare, extremely violent, and usually severely wounding, tiring, or fatal.
Most action/adventure video games, immersive sims included, include absurd, fantastical amounts of combat. Gunfights or sword fights around every corner. Killing enemies by the dozen or hundreds. This is fun in an arcade sense, but a wide departure from realism.
I know that you can play Dishonored without killing any enemies, although I've never been able to pull this off.
What other immersive sims have no or low combat, or the option to largely avoid it or to (potentially) pay huge costs if you engage in it?