turns out marketing is way harder than building the product ever was
my side project is basically done at this point. it's an ai chief of staff type tool, been building it nights and weekends alongside my day job as a software engineer.
and now i'm stuck on the part i genuinely didn't prepare for: getting anyone to actually see it. i have no existing audience, no newsletter, no following anywhere. building felt hard but at least i knew what to do each day. marketing feels like throwing things at a wall with no feedback loop.
for the solopreneurs here who got past this stage, what actually worked? not the generic 'post on reddit and twitter' answer, i mean the real sequence, what you did first, second, third, and what you'd skip if you started over.