u/NationalTreasured

Looking for some Genuine People to be My Friend

I've been quite an introvert since the beginning, which is why I've never really had many close friends or been in a relationship. And honestly, for a long time, I was happy that way, enjoying my own solitude.

But over the last 2-3 months, I've started feeling that maybe everyone needs at least one genuine person in their life. Someone you don't have to meet every day, but can occasionally spend time with. Someone you can open your heart to, have honest conversations with, laugh with, and simply be yourself around.

A little more about me: I love reading and writing. Spirituality, Law of Attraction, Subconscious, Consciousness, Psychology, Philosophy, Poetry, and the nature of the mind are some of my favourite topics. I also love documenting my life. In fact, since 1 January 2019, I've written about every single day of my life... when I woke up, what I did, what I ate, what I thought about, and much more. I have different journals for different things: one for random ideas, one for spirituality, another for meaningful excerpts from books, and many more.

I'd love to meet someone who enjoys deep conversations and is genuinely interested in getting to know another person, not just for a day or two, but with the possibility of building a sincere, meaningful, long-term friendship or connection.

I've actually made a similar post once before and met a few wonderful people through it. Unfortunately, most of those conversations didn't really last. So this time, I'm simply hoping to find someone who values consistency, honesty, and genuine effort as much as I do.

If you're someone who enjoys meaningful conversations, sharing random thoughts, talking about life, laughing over stupid things, or simply having a person you can talk to without pretending to be someone you're not... feel free to say hello. 😊

No pressure, no expectations. Let's just start with a conversation and see where it goes.

One Sincere Introvert 😊✨

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u/NationalTreasured — 2 days ago

M27 | Let Me Introduce Myself

Hi, Reader. I hope you're doing well. ✨

I'm here looking for a friend, a partner, a soulmate, someone who truly feels like my other half in human form.

About Me: I'm 27, from Delhi, and come from a Punjabi family.

It's been around 7–8 years since I was last in a relationship, mostly because of my ultra-introverted nature. I know... these days that almost feels like a crime. 😅

But honestly, I loved my solitude. It was my choice. I had all the time in the world to explore new ideas, read, write, learn, practice new things, and simply enjoy my own company.

Lately, though, something has changed.

For the past few months, I've had this quiet feeling that maybe it's time. I do want a partner now. A real connection. No more living only through books. I want a real human to share life with. ✨

Hobbies & Interests: I love Reading, Writing, and Journaling.

Some of my favourite topics are: • Spirituality • Philosophy • Psychology • Literature • Law of Attraction • Self-help • Marketing • Poetry • Ancient philosophy • Mind/Consciousness • Universe

If you enjoy these topics too, we could probably talk for hours. And if you don't, that's perfectly okay. I'd genuinely enjoy learning about the things you're passionate about as well.

I also used to create movie, series, and meme edits. I don't do that much anymore because I rarely come across a film or character that inspires me enough to make edits from the heart.

I meditate regularly and have read the Bhagavad Gita, Ashtavakra Gita, Avadhuta Gita, the Upanishads, the Vedas, the Bible, Sri Guru Granth Sahib, and books by Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj, Sri Ramana Maharshi, Sri Yukteswar Giri, Swami Vivekananda, Osho, Alan Watts, Robert Adams, and many other spiritual teachers.

And here's something a little unusual...

I've been journaling my life every single day since 1 January 2019. Every day is handwritten... what I did, what I learned, what I felt, what I ate... almost everything. If we ever become close enough and you have the time and interest, I'd genuinely love to share those journals with you someday. 😊

Things I Appreciate: • Honesty • Loyalty • Sincerity • Good Communication • Respect • A good Sense of Humour • Sarcasm (the healthy kind)

Things I Don't Like: • Disrespect • Dishonesty • Poor communication • Lack of Trust • Being Emotionally Nonchalant

Fun Fact: Once I'm comfortable with someone, I can keep a conversation going for hours. I have countless topics to discuss and an endless list of questions. Fair warning... you might eventually get tired of answering them. 😅

My Wish: I'd genuinely love to meet someone from Delhi because, if things work out between us, I'd love to meet regularly in real life. That's something I've honestly never experienced before.

A Couple of Notes:

  1. I mentioned being Punjabi simply as an introduction. My family and I are very open-minded. Religion, caste, or background don't matter to us. As long as you're a kind, genuine human being, that's more than enough. ❤️

  2. I'm completely happy to start as friends and let things grow naturally over time. There's no rush when it comes to meaningful relationships.

Lastly...

Whether you're an introvert or an extrovert, if you're looking for something genuine, enjoy meaningful conversations, and are craving a real connection with someone who'll truly listen and care...

I'd love to hear from you. ✨

Hope to Meet You soon, Future Partner. ❤️

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u/NationalTreasured — 12 days ago