Regarding parents wanting to move in
I should have posted this in the Manipal sub but it’s literally not letting me to. It’s taking down my post maybe because this is a new account with no karma at all. But I dont care. I’m losing my mind and I want to know what people think
Want to know if I’m overreacting. Didn’t book hostel when the mail was sent because I wanted a single ac room instead of double sharing. After few days the hostel booking was over and not a single room was left including non ac. Parents searched for pg’s and flats with Ac but there was one problem or another. Either there was no single available or the pg was far. Now they wanted me to go for a pg without food because I’m not gonna have food in pg all 3 times a day. But they’re also apparently worried about my health
Now my mom is suggesting renting a literal house and planning to make my dad stay there with me. The initial plan was obviously for me to live alone. But now my mom has decided how my college life should go. I’m a female. She’s suggesting that my dad could get a job there itself and live with me so that he could help me and cook for me and stuff. Now my mom is not conservative at all and is chill and okay. My dad pretends to be chill but I can’t trust him. He has a habit of stalking people ( not stalking in a very serious sense but definitely very annoying, he stalks me and my mom and can’t trust him at all) besides it’s not like I’m gonna do illegal stuff or shit. Whether I do stuff or not nobody has the right to stalk me and that’s wrong and sick
Other than that my dad also is not restrictive and strict and stuff. They want this arrangement for my well being. But I’m very much icked out by all of this. If I knew it would be like this then I would not have chosen Manipal and would instead just choose a college in my hometown that is Bangalore. My mom also knows how excited and happy i was to finally be away from them ( they’re very annoying and I’m vocal about how I don’t like it) but now the orientation is close by and my mom has suddenly planned my entire college life. She says “ nobody is gonna interfere with your freedom” but honestly idc about she says.
The truth still stands that I should have been informed of this before but i wasn’t. All of a sudden she’s really concerned about my health and how I’m gonna manage by myself in a new place and hence wants to rent a house and have my dad live with me for the entirely of my college life. I’m deeply annoyed and frustrated by all of this. Mainly because if I knew things would be like this I would have either chosen a college in Bangalore so that my ever so sweet and caring parents would continue helping me or I would would have just chosen a hostel room, ac or not whatever. This is sick and disgusting how just days before the orientation they’ve decided a completely different plan for a very imp part of my life. Please tell me you’re opinions