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Random thoughts: Grieving that I won’t be able to get married for years to come

Do any of you think about this? I’m in my VAWA process for 2 years now, I’ve been separated/divorced for over 4 years and now I’m well into my 30s. I’m in a new, stable relationship for almost 3 years but I’m struggling with decision to have children outside of marriage, before I have my dream wedding. It’s unusual in my culture to do that and I’m also personally struggling with it. By the time this whole process is done I will be past my mid 30s probably and it’s just making me so sad and heartbroken that I can’t do this process the way I want to on my own timeline. Do any of you struggle with similar things?

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u/NewActuary9695 — 1 day ago

3 lawyers I follow posted not to travel with VAWA AP

Here is the link to one of those videos. What they are saying is pretty much that they are giving us AP with intention to not let us return to the country after we travel. If this is true it should be a class action lawsuit, I just can’t believe how this is allowed and acceptable to abuse us like this

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u/NewActuary9695 — 11 days ago

Did anyone left country while VAWA pending and continued processing outside of US?

Hi, I know it’s better to wait inside the US and I know my green card application will be abandoned. But did anyone have experience with continuing I360 from abroad? I have health issues that so it’s necessary for me to leave. Please write only if you yourself did this or if you know someone who did.

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u/NewActuary9695 — 21 days ago

Lawyers are saying not to apply for AP

What do you guys think about this? I just saw Attorney Martinez post about this. I find this absolutely ridiculous if it’s true, just making up new reason to make process harder

u/NewActuary9695 — 26 days ago

Do I need to pay for emergency AP or no?

Can someone please clarify this for me. I’m a Vawa petitioner and I have emergency AP appointment scheduled soon. I thought that as Vawa we are exempt from paying fees for our petitions to USCIS. I’m not in a great financial situation so not paying that $600 for emergency AP would really help me, that’s the main reason why I’m requesting it because I can’t afford the medical care here for my surgery here. So If someone can tell me are we exempt from paying for I-131 emergency advance parole or no? I see a lot of contradictory information here, some people say they payed some say no

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u/NewActuary9695 — 1 month ago