u/No-Chocolate9551

I am actually pretty nervous to do this but here we go;

I have been single for a minute and have got quite comfortable being alone but it gets quite lonely so here I am.
About me;
28 years, I am on the petite side (56kgs), Chocolate skin, about 5’7 in height and like watching movies and listening to music. I am quite an introvert but like to go out whenever I really can. I am financially independent (not stable yet but I can pay my bills) and I don’t have any kids yet.

Benefits of dating me;
I reciprocate energy (kinda a hopeless romantic) and I am big on loyalty (you will never have to worry about me), I have good communication skills, I am mature and fully healed and bonus is I will spoil you on your birthday or any big days you have. etc

About you;
Have something going for yourself and be financially stable. Be in a place where you are dating for marriage, please no situationships and be healed from all past trauma, be a Christian, 28 or older, romantic and very good communication skills, if your funny and a good sense of humor it’s a plus.

Don’t even reach out if;
Have an STD, You are in any kind of relationship, Don’t believe in dates and ain’t romantic in any way, Looking for fun, Talk about sex before you even get to know me or meet me, not intentional. If you also feel unsure about dating please no (I am not looking to be ghosted)

And yes I run a strict regime with my life.

If you made it this far and decided to reach out, Please don’t text ‘hello’, I may not reply. Introduce yourself 🤞.

Been going out almost every weekend to nice places for the last two month and I swear i barely meeting any single reasonable guys. Most are either married or just want to have fun. I feel like I am just wasting my money and should revert to my introvert ways.

FYI I am out right now and the place is full of couples. I guess I should just go home and sleep 😩😩

You see I have an a mazing mum that just worries too much. Me and my siblings no longer tell her any bad things we have going on because before you know it her pressure is up and my dad is calling wondering why we talked to her about the bad news.
Recently she called me and asked about my love life and this is not something we ever talk about but she knows about my ex and how it never worked out. She asked if I was seeing someone and I said no and this woman seemed really worried for me. She told me she has been praying and fasting for a week so I could meet an Amazing man and how she wants me to settle down soon. See this lady is scared that I am single mind you I am 28. My dad now also calls asking if I have met anyone and is constantly telling me how my mum is worried and I am starting to feel pressured. It’s getting to appoint where I can no longer pick up their calls because I know that will be brought up. She’s always asking if I am going out and meeting people and it is starting to make me feel a little behind with life.

How do you tell your fragile parents that we don’t get men from trees and have to meet them date etc.