Please be kind due to the emotional state behind this message. I just truly do not know who to ask.
Currently on the track for a miscarriage as doctors have informed me.
Obviously I am mortified as we really wanted this baby. Husbands in the q. I have family here to support me and get me through and I can handle this.
I do not want to notify to derail what he has going on but I do feel that he will be upset that he wasn’t made aware in hindsight at the end of this.
So my question is Red Cross message or wait till he’s home and inform him then? I know this is a niche situation and please be kind as I really do not know who else to ask. I truly wanted another man’s and father’s opinion that can relate to being in the Q. I want to wait till he’s home and not hurt his focus, others are telling me to inform him as he has a right to know but those others aren’t informed with this process. What to do.