u/NoEngineer2241

N- this is for YOU. How dare you. The lady that she sent the messages to will post later.

N- this is for YOU. How dare you. The lady that she sent the messages to will post later.

You’ve done and you’ve said some despicable and evil things as a human being and so many are as a “mother”.
Despite all of that and what I know personally, when I read this my jaw dropped to the floor. To tell a pregnant lady that you hope her unborn baby doesn’t make it is about as low as you can get. Being pregnant yourself, you think about how this would make YOU FEEL if it were you being told this. And all the lady did was ask a simple question. Shame on you for the disregarding of an innocent unborn baby and for the baby’s mother. SHAME ON YOU! You preach about being a Christian, being kind and being a girls girl and honey you are the furtherest from any of those things. EVERYONE in this sub has been concerned about the well being of your baby (everyone but you) and have all tried to help you understand. NOONE in here has wished the things you said to this lady on you or your baby. We all want this baby to be healthy and we all want you to be healthy as well- I knew you were unstable and unhinged but this really solidified it. You posted a video or 2 trying to gain sympathy after you talked to this lady the way you did. “In your feels” you should be and you should apologize to this lady and it be genuine, but we know you’re not capable of a genuine apology. We’ve all seen your little backhanded fake apologies. The fact that you blocked and unblocked several times to send her not one but 17 messages back to back is wild and then you proceed to tell her where she lives. YOU ARE DISTURBED. Seriously. You also said you were thinking about letting the app go and for once I agree with something you said. I think you should and not because I don’t like you but because you’re so addicted to social media and constant attention. I think you need to do some soul searching and get in that Bible of yours and to God. You need to get some help- mental health inpatient, anger management, marriage counseling, parenting classes. For Pete’s sake grow up and be a woman and not a 12 year old girl. People snark on you, yes, but you are the reason. Your own choices. You have the choice every single day to be better than the day before and you choose to stoop lower and lower instead. I seriously don’t understand how one pregnant woman is ok with telling another one what you did. I just cannot. I’ve always said that there’s evil in your eyes and you just keep proving your my point. I’m not going to wish bad anything on you or your baby. I pray you both make it safely but most of all I pray that you stop your chaos and be a truly good mother to this baby. It won’t make up for how you’ve treated your son, your husband’s kids, or your ex’s kids but you can do better with this baby. Do better! Be better! Shame on you!!

u/NoEngineer2241 — 1 day ago

Here’s a couple facts for you today N- since you love to hashtag foodie.

See, you’re actually NOT A FOODIE. You’re a JUNK FOOD EATER.

u/NoEngineer2241 — 3 days ago

For those who are new and ask why she don’t work- for some reason it glitched at the beginning and when she twirls her hair she said “I don’t have to work”

She’s so freaking arrogant and entitled and full of 💩

u/NoEngineer2241 — 3 days ago

Ooof

Y’all. I really pray this baby is healthy. N looks horrible and I’m not trying to be mean but she looks very unhealthy right now. She needs to see a dr today. The amount of swelling she’s got going on is too much. I mean her eyes are almost swollen shut. How can she not understand the danger she’s putting her baby in and really herself as well. Her Temu drs lack of concern from her last visit is alarming.

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u/NoEngineer2241 — 5 days ago

Children-

I removed the last post here that was a picture of her son and her grandfather. I know for a fact that he nor the 3 steps kids want to be posted. He’s asked her time and time again not to post him. She may post it trying to make herself look like a good “mother”, when in truth she’s mommie dearest- but we don’t have to do that. I realize this is a snark sub but let’s leave kids pics out of it please. 😊 thanks

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u/NoEngineer2241 — 6 days ago

Updated “not allowed” stuff

Myself and the mods will add to the list as needed.

What is NOT allowed:
ANYTHING AI
GD, abbreviated or spelled out
Pathetic
POS
Waste of space
Useless
Pig
Horse
Cow
Baboon
Hippo
Rhino
Fat
Fatty
Oink
Moo
C*nt
Tw@t
Tw1t
B1tch
Wh0re
Sl*t
R3t@rd/ed
Sk@nk
Butthole
Slob or any name including that word
Comments about her jaw
No names- this includes her “friends”names as well- use initials only
No snarking on the baby- that’s an automatic permanent b@n
No physical thr3@ts period. Thats an automatic permanent b@n.
No gifs that contain anything above.

Some of the comments are true and insightful but they need to be reworded.

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u/NoEngineer2241 — 16 days ago

Ok N- this one’s for you to answer. I know you will see this because this sub is your hobby.

Why in the world do you have that spice rack up freakin side down? That would drive me insane as someone with OCD.

u/NoEngineer2241 — 19 days ago

JUST A REMINDER-

I’m sure this is not going to make a lot of y’all happy.

I’m going to post this one time and one time only. If anything listed here is posted by anyone, I will banana you from the group and it doesn’t matter to me who you are. This sub was started to expose her lies and narcissism. Since then it has turned into trash. Some of the posts I’m seeing actually seem worse than she’s posted. Yes. I said that. Snarking can be done without some of what I’m seeing in here. Some of the stuff I’m seeing makes me ashamed to even be in here. Do I like her? NO! Am I defending her? NO! I’m exercising my morals and what I don’t feel comfortable allowing. If anyone wants to continue to post about exposing her personality and her evilness, please feel free to remain here but if you want to post what I’m no longer allowing then this isn’t the group for you. The older ones of us remember how the sub was before. There was snarking but not on the level that she herself is on.
What will be deleted:

  1. ANY AI- videos, pics, whatever else is AI.
  2. Certain words, GD WILL NOT BE TOLERATED

abbreviated or spelled out

  1. , c\^nt, Tw\^t, cow, horse, pos piece of sh\^t, w@ste of space

, pig, rhino, hippo,

  1. or anything close to these words

, nor any gifs or memes that contain any of those things.

  1. Baby’s name.
  2. Do not post S and N names. Use initials only. That can get us in trouble.
  3. Address.
  4. Horse, cow, pig, comments about her jaw being long.

Of course I realize that some will not be happy with this but as a mod and as someone that hasn’t lost sight of what this sub was started for, I cannot let some of this continue. Please do not send either mod any hateful messages about this. Please respect what I am asking. I’ve already removed several posts..
Thank you.

Edit to add- there’s a difference between reposting what she posts publicly and your opinions and making up stuff.

EDIT TO ADD- if anyone has issues with ANYTHING posted please don’t hesitate to message me.

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u/NoEngineer2241 — 19 days ago

Hey 👋🏽

Someone has come to me asking to post some “interactions” that they have personally had with N via text messages- phone to phone. I myself have not seen or read any of it. The sub has been a mess the last little while and I’ve had to b@n people permanently. When/if this person posts what she has, please remember that the same requests I’ve made about not posting certain things still applies. Anything that I don’t feel comfortable being posted will come down, no questions asked. Also remember if you get 3 warnings, Reddit will “punish” you and I won’t reverse it unless myself or the other mod feels like it’s an error on Reddits part. Thanks to those who have stuck to my requests. Y’all have calmed things down so SO much. With all of that being said Happy Snarking!

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u/NoEngineer2241 — 24 days ago

From time to time I post this disclaimer- and so here I’m posting again.

SSM disclaimer

The views expressed here are my own and for informational purposes only — not professional advice. I’m not trying to add or reveal anything beyond what’s already publicly posted. I may share opinions, affiliate links, or sponsored content; verify facts independently before making your own conclusions.

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u/NoEngineer2241 — 25 days ago

Addressing a comment she made

I want to address this comment straight to N herself! First of all when you put your ENTIRE LIFE online for all to see you have to know you’re gonna get some people who don’t like you.
Second of all and pay attention to this ma’am- NO-ONE IS COMING AFTER YOU WHEN THE BABY IS BORN. There are people who will be coming forward (one of which is your own child) to show others whom you have fooled into believing your twisted version of the truth. So NO- NO-ONE IS COMING AFTER YOU.
Third of all IF you truly thought there was someone doing what you say, and you truly was concerned, YOU WOULD EITHER BE PRIVATE OR NOT ONLINE AT ALL. Do I care if you’re public or private? NO but since you put yourself out there like you do in not so flattering ways, there are people who watch the train wreck. This sub is a snark page. You don’t have to be over here and you don’t have to come in here as other people to defend yourself. Those who know you, know that everything you say is a lie. Yes, people have gone too far in here at times and lost sight of why the sub was started which was to review what you yourself has posted publicly and form our own opinions. OPINIONS- true or not- what’s posted are people’s opinions. If you don’t know what an opinion is, ask ChatGPT. Otherwise, stop reporting- it does no good.
In case you haven’t noticed, people are genuinely concerned about the baby. You aren’t taking care of her now and she’s not even here yet. We see how your animals and husband are treated by you. I can assure you that you have NOTHING anyone in here is jealous of. In order for one to be jealous you have to have something the other person wants and well, I, for one don’t want anything you have so get over yourself. I still stand by the fact that you need mental health help, anger management, parenting and marriage counseling. Whether or not you get any of it is doubtful but again that’s MY OPINION.
Oh- and when numerous people that know you or have dealt with you tell the very same story when they’ve never met and you’re the villain- it usually means just that.
Some of your posts I’m pretty sure you make just to get reactions because no one can be as classless and uneducated as you seem to be. Now- you have the day you deserve boo boo.

u/NoEngineer2241 — 25 days ago

I’m sure this is not going to make a lot of y’all happy.

I’m going to post this one time and one time only. If anything listed here is posted by anyone, I will banana you from the group and it doesn’t matter to me who you are. This sub was started to expose her lies and narcissism. Since then it has turned into trash. Some of the posts I’m seeing actually seem worse than she’s posted. Yes. I said that. Snarking can be done without some of what I’m seeing in here. Some of the stuff I’m seeing makes me ashamed to even be in here. Do I like her? NO! Am I defending her? NO! I’m exercising my morals and what I don’t feel comfortable allowing. If anyone wants to continue to post about exposing her personality and her evilness, please feel free to remain here but if you want to post what I’m no longer allowing then this isn’t the group for you. The older ones of us remember how the sub was before. There was snarking but not on the level that she herself is on.
What will be deleted:

  1. ANY AI- videos, pics, whatever else is AI.
  2. Certain words, GD WILL NOT BE TOLERATED, c^nt, Tw^t, cow, horse, pos piece of sh^t, w@ste of space or anything close to these words.
  3. Baby’s name.
  4. Do not post S and N names. Use initials only. That can get us in trouble.
  5. Address.
  6. Horse, cow, pig, comments about her jaw being long.

Of course I realize that some will not be happy with this but as a mod and as someone that hasn’t lost sight of what this sub was started for, I cannot let some of this continue. Please do not send either mod any hateful messages about this. Please respect what I am asking. I’ve already removed several posts. My internet has been down and just came back on is the only reason they are just now being removed.
Thank you.

Edit to add- there’s a difference between reposting what she posts publicly and your opinions and making up stuff.

EDIT TO ADD- if anyone has issues with ANYTHING posted please don’t hesitate to message me.

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u/NoEngineer2241 — 30 days ago

Truth is truth and nothing changes if nothing changes.

Ok first of all N- the ONLY thing people have said about the baby over here is that they are concerned about her given the fact that you are not giving her proper nourishment and haven’t since you found out you were pregnant. The car seat in the vehicle is nowhere near in there correctly. Why does it make you so mad that people are concerned with the well being of an innocent baby? It’s very obvious that you aren’t.
Why does it make you mad when people tell you they don’t care to see your belly that don’t look pregnant? People have opinions- just like those that you have and make it known to others what you think in you “KIND” posts and comments. It’s ok for you to trash people and tell them what you think about them or situations but when the tables turn, you can’t handle it. It bothers you so bad that not everyone is snowed by your lies and trash- some actually see through it all and see the real you. You can’t be an adult and take advice or constructive criticism like the rest of us. Even if you don’t want it you can take it and move on. Instead you delete, deactivate, block you thrown a tantrum and show everyone just how childish you are. You say you’re unbothered but you stay over here reading and reporting. It’s too bad that you don’t see that people are genuinely concerned about your baby. You do what you want to yourself but that baby is innocent. Most of us have even posted our own experiences with being pregnant and child birth and raising in hopes that you would take some advice but you act like you know everything and others know nothing!
You make your husband work in the 100degree plus weather in the woods 10-12-16 hours a day no less than 5 days a week and sometimes 7 days a week so that you can blow money on stuff not needed. Your car hurt your back is not a reason to buy a $75k vehicle that you won’t drive much. The seat wasn’t the issue- the issue was/is YOU. You’re morbidly obese and pregnant and extremely lazy. That’s why your back hurts. To say that one reason you like the new vehicle is because you’re eye level with Sonic’s menu is just insane to me. Do you actually hear or read what you post before you post it? I guarantee that you don’t because if you did you’d see how unstable you look posting- or maybe you do and still decide that what you’re posting is fine. The lack of concern and care for anyone but yourself astounds me. I’ve dealt with a lot of narcissists in my years BUT I don’t think I’ve seen one like you before. You say you post real life over there and you’re doing that. You’re posting lies and trash. You spew negativity every day when someone disagrees with you. You’re posting trying to convince people that y’all are so happy in y’all’s marriage and we see that. So. Yes you’re posting real life content and it’s so sad to see someone try to hard to make others believe the reality that you want them to see and not the true reality. You trash your husband nonstop and thats not cool. He has been good to you, yet you still trash him. The only time you speak good of him is when you want something and you’re trying to be nice for your own gain. The massive amount of debt you have put that man in just puzzles me. When there’s no way to get all the new stuff you want what’s gonna happen? You will leave and tell everyone how horrible he was to you-just like you do everyone else you’ve been with. It’s NEVER YOUR FAULT. The first thing that you can do to start to be a better person, wife and mother to your baby is to admit you have issues and get some help. Do you realize that you have no real friends? That’s your own fault. You’re so mean to people who have done nothing wrong to you. You say you’re a Christian but your actions and words don’t line up with God’s Word. It doesn’t at all. God doesn’t like that cherry picking of His Word!!
You say you’re a girls girl- if you take a good long look at yourself you will see that you’re nothing more than a mean girl. I’m sure when you read this it will make you mad and you will report it for some d#mb reason. Your “besties” that egg you on are as cray cray as you are. As soon as they disagree or question anything you say or post, you will throw them to the side and block them. You post about respect and morals but you have ZERO for yourself or others. You’re evil. It shows in your eyes. You need mental health help- I really think you have borderline personality disorder. People can see you “split” in certain videos and on lives in real time and it’s scary to see how fast you “split”. The paranoia is so bad. The amount of narcissism and manipulation and hate you have is just astounding. You can tell anything and everything you want to but your eyes show the real truth. Instead of trying to convince others what a good person you are, that you’ve got the perfect marriage, what a big Christian you are, and any other bag of lies that you put out there- it would be more beneficial if you actually put down the phone and social media and put in the hard work to actually become who you claim to be- otherwise nothing will change and you will end up alone.

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u/NoEngineer2241 — 1 month ago

Hey N- I see you over here reporting today 🤣

Girl you’re wasting your time reporting over here. While you’re over here though you may as well read the posts that are meant to help you take care of your unborn baby. You definitely need the help. I just cannot understand how you can be so selfish.

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u/NoEngineer2241 — 1 month ago

These comments 🤣🤣🤣🤣 they are as cookoo as she is!

I especially love the “y’all work hard to have nice things” and she says “yes we do”. Come on now- that man busts his butt in the woods logging in 100 plus degree weather 6-7 days a week 12 hours a day for you to have what you want but don’t need. Your back was hurting because you’re morbidly obese and pregnant and lazy!
I will never understand people having the most expensive vehicles and shabby houses. You say yall can’t afford to fix the ceiling and other house stuff. That car doesn’t come anywhere close to making a dent in the price for that armada. If you love your hubby (as you call him) so much you would try to keep debt down and if you love that baby so much you’d be buying for her instead of yourself. Instead you post outrageous baby registries and expect other people to buy for you. Sadly, some of those people are as d#mb as your hubby. You have said your insurance is crap and he probaly makes too much money for wic and Medicaid (you said that’s why you go to the clinic you go too because it’s cheap there and maybe that’s why the Temu doctor). Formula is expensive, diapers are too, gosh babies in general are so expensive. Baby visits. Sick visits. Hospital bills for delivery. This is blessings ma’am this is st#pidity that will lead to a lifetime of debt. That man will never ever see the light of day from all the debt you have him in. Sometimes we are allowed situations by God in order to show us we are not capable of handling His blessings. Enjoy it because I see a humbling coming soon.

u/NoEngineer2241 — 1 month ago