I catfished this guy I was dating
Alright so nobody got hurt except for me. I found out this guy (35) I was seeing basically led me (36) on for months and lied to me about just about everything he told me. Told he was “intentionally” dating and that he cut off all his connections to focus on ours. I believed him, he told me he deleted his bumble account, I believed him. He was really charming in that way, but then he started to become inconsistent towards the end… and started blaming it on his attachment style (I’m avoidant this is hard for me) then he started telling me he had to move back into his family’s house to help them bc his parents were having a hard time. I felt sorry for him but also I realized.. he lied about this so that he would never have to invite me over to his place. I asked him numerous times if we should end it? He kept saying no.
there was even one week he told me he went to Asia (I’m not even sure if that happened) then he came back and surprised me a “week earlier” I believed him. He kept telling me how stressed he was and that he was having chest pains and work and then all the sudden his aunt dies (I’m not even sure if his aunt even died) anyway, he discarded me like I was nothing. And I just felt so betrayed and tricked.
So I made a fake bumble account at first to see if he was still on there (we ended up matching) it wasn’t a new account… I asked him what area he stayed, he told me (that’s how i figured out he never moved because bumble shows you how far someone is from you) naturally I was quite angry.
So I made plans with him as my catfish….he made reservations at a place that has more than one location.
Me and my friend dressed up as men and sat in the restaurant and cackled at his stupid face as he was getting stood up, we recorded the whole thing.
I kept texting him from my catfish Google voice number that I was running late and then I pretended I went to the wrong location. He drove all the way across town.. then I just ghosted him. He called 4x and kept texting..
Nothing compares to the months of confusion and lies that man put me through. I was super genuine the whole time we dated only to realize everything was a lie to just keep me around. I’m also someone who has had a lot of sexual trauma. I felt incredibly used and betrayed.
I did it to get my power back.
Someone lying about moving, their aunt dying, work stress etc is actually evil. I had idea someone could lie so easily.
Not to mention he lied about the smallest things… (I found his Reddit account) he told me he didn’t watch wrestling or love island…….. 👀 then why are you commenting in subreddits about love island and wresting ???
Anyway I had this man chasing imaginary pussy for a whole day. Felt good
Gave me closure. I talked about it with my therapist. I’m totally fine.
I loved getting the last laugh. Now he’s stuck wondering what happaned to this hot girl that wanted me??????😂