An American Manager Tried to Hire Someone in Europe the Same Way as in the US. It Went Exactly as You'd Expect

I work at the European headquarters of a company with a large US branch. A manager on the American side, whom we'll call AM, got approval to hire someone in Europe to coordinate their projects. This person would sit with my team but report directly to AM.

Seven months later, the position is still vacant. AM traveled here several times to conduct interviews, and he kept saying that no one wants to work these days. The rest of us would usually look at one another, because the problem wasn't a lack of applications. I worked in the US for years, but watching this process from the European side was strange.

The first job posting brought in around 40 résumés. Our office doesn't use automated screening, so AM had to read them himself, and he kept complaining about the workload. He was also annoyed that nearly everyone had submitted a cover letter. We explained that both of those things are perfectly normal here, and that the applicants had put genuine effort into their applications, so the least we could do was read what they had sent.

AM then rejected almost the entire pool because they didn't already have a certain professional certification. The position had been advertised as junior to mid-level, and the certification wasn't legally required. We told AM that someone who already had that certification would expect a higher salary. Otherwise, the US team would need to cover the cost of the training and exam after hiring them. AM wasn't happy, but he eventually accepted it.

He then suggested a 75-minute aptitude and personality assessment. We warned AM to keep any test under 20 minutes and to drop the whole personality-typing idea. He replied, "But what if I hire someone whose personality isn't compatible with mine?" We told him he was free to try. The first two candidates who were asked to take it both withdrew. One of them CC'd my manager on an email saying, "I have a master's degree in actuarial science. I'm not going to spend more than an hour proving that I know how to calculate percentages." That email made the rounds across the entire team because we had already warned AM that this was exactly what would happen.

The same scenario kept repeating. A strong candidate said during the interview that another company had already made him an offer. AM waited ten days because he thought it might be a negotiating tactic, so the candidate accepted the other job. Our salaries are governed by a union agreement, and the ranges are public, so there wasn't much room for negotiation in the first place.

Another candidate tentatively accepted, but he had just had a baby and become a father. He said he wouldn't start until after taking ten weeks of parental leave, especially since his current company had already approved 14 weeks for him. AM considered that an unreasonable request and withdrew the offer. We thought the candidate had been clear and upfront from the beginning, before anyone wasted any more time.

To be fair, AM gradually started adapting and became more willing to listen to us after each failed round. In day-to-day interactions, he's a nice enough person. But I still don't know whether hiring culture in the US has changed this much since I left more than ten years ago, or whether I've simply gotten used to employees in Europe expecting their time and personal lives to be respected.

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u/No_Table9297 — 11 days ago

They Asked Us to Reduce Idling Time, So I Brought Mine Down to Exactly 0.00%

My work vehicle had GPS and an engine monitoring system, and management tracked how long we sat with the vehicle stopped and the engine running. Their target was around 4%, and that had never been a problem for me until they moved my work area to the most congested part of the city.

Between construction, traffic lights, and cars barely moving during rush hour, my idling rate increased by about 9%. My supervisor started bringing it up with me constantly, and then gave me what he called a "written verbal warning" over it.

Fine. From that moment on, I shut off the engine any time the vehicle was not moving. Red light? Engine off. Traffic stopped on the highway? Engine off. Waiting at a gate? Engine off. The moment I parked at a job site? Engine off. Before long, I had the best idling score in the entire branch: exactly 0.00%.

The vehicle also charged my phone, rugged laptop, diagnostic tablet, and several rechargeable tool batteries. Since the engine never stayed on long enough to charge anything, the vehicle's battery kept dying.

Company policy said I was not allowed to jump-start the vehicle myself, so every time the battery died, I had to call dispatch and wait for roadside assistance. It usually took about 90 minutes, and it started happening more than once a day. They sent the vehicle to the shop, found nothing wrong with it, returned it to me, and I immediately started draining the battery the same way again.

They replaced my vehicle twice before the fleet manager finally called me and asked me to explain exactly what I was doing. I told him I shut off the engine at every traffic light and whenever traffic stopped. He went quiet for a moment and asked, "Why would you do that?" I told him my supervisor had written me up for excessive idling.

He said the whole situation was absurd, removed the warning, and apparently had a talk with my supervisor. After that, no one ever mentioned my idling rate again, and I stopped treating every red light like an emergency shutdown procedure. I do not work there anymore, which is probably best for everyone.

I am still looking for another job, and I hope the next one doesn't involve a supervisor like that. I also can't forget the tedious job interviews how they ramp up the stress and anxiety, not to mention the unexpected questions. However, I recently heard about "InterviewVIP" a service that helps overcome these hurdles and boosts your chances of getting hired.

u/No_Table9297 — 1 month ago

I sent 925 job applications in 5 weeks.. And here is the data.

The summary: I applied for 925 roles where I met their requirements. I received 345 standard rejection emails. I did 8 interviews in total. And in the end, I signed the offer.

This means I applied for about 115 applications for every single interview invite. The market is truly crazy right now.

If anyone wants to know the process, I searched on all the main boards like LinkedIn, Glassdoor, Indeed, and Wellfound. I edited my resume about 12 times and checked it with ChatGPT and Claude for ATS issues. I also created text shortcuts so that when I type "@@" it writes my email and when I type "##" it puts the LinkedIn URL. I used a tool called Magical to get rid of the repetitive typing of names, addresses, and cover letter intros.

I asked the AI to scrape or generate a list of about 65 companies in my niche. After that, I went directly to their career pages to find unlisted openings or roles that hadn't been posted on the big boards yet.

I didn't have the luxury of waiting; I needed a paycheck immediately. Since everyone is fighting over remote 6-figure roles, I decided to treat the search as a numbers game. My 9-to-5 was literally applying for jobs until I settled on something. Thank God that this effort paid off in the end.

Good luck to everyone who is still struggling. I know how much this truly drains energy, so if anyone has any questions about the workflow, feel free to ask.

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u/No_Table9297 — 1 month ago

My Manager Was Shocked When I Laughed After I Got Fired

I had been stuck in a really awful workplace for almost five months, and I kept convincing myself that I'd leave as soon as I found another proper job.

The funny thing is, I had accepted another offer two days earlier, and I was supposed to start there in about a month. A few weeks ago, my manager called me into her office and told me that it was clear I "wasn't fully committed to the role" and that I "wasn't aligned with the team's values," so they were ending my employment. I just said to her: "Okay, no problem. I already have another job and I'll be starting in about four weeks." Her face honestly made my week. Then she said to me: "You weren't planning to give us proper notice?" I couldn't hold myself back; I laughed. I asked her: "Sorry, did you give me any notice before firing me?" The audacity was unreal.

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u/No_Table9297 — 2 months ago

I ended a job interview halfway through

This was a little over a year ago. I had just graduated from computer science and was looking for my first proper job after uni. I already had about 14 months of experience because I'd done a placement year in Manchester. I had also just received an offer for a job in Manchester at £48k, but I wasn't excited about moving back there. I had applied on the basis that there was a remote option, but it turned out there wasn't.

Anyway, I found a role at a small company that had been on job boards for a few weeks, so I figured I'd send in an application. Two days later, I got a call asking me to come in for an interview. When I arrived, there was a small car park next to some renovated terraced houses they were using as offices, and I parked next to a bright blue Porsche Taycan. I mean, clearly the business wasn't exactly scraping pennies together.

We had the usual interview chat for about 20 minutes, until I was asked the question everyone loves: "what salary are you looking for?" I tried to give a vague answer without naming an exact figure. The CEO clearly didn't like that, and sharply told me to just say what I wanted. I said £38k. He literally laughed.

I was surprised, because that was basically the salary range in the advert. After that, he went on a rant about recruiters exaggerating pay and convincing graduates that they're worth far more than they actually are. According to him, I had no idea what my skills were worth, and I'd be lucky to get anything close to that number. Honestly, I was a bit shocked and didn't know what to say for a second.

So I asked him what he thought a fair offer would be. After taking a shot at my GitHub and saying I shouldn't put anything on there unless it was fully polished production-level software, he said £23k. That was the moment I got up, shook his hand, thanked him for his time, and ended the interview.

About 10 minutes after I left, I still got a formal offer by text. I replied saying that unfortunately I already had an offer for more than double what they were offering, so I wouldn't be moving forward with them.

I won't lie, sending that reply felt really, really good.

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u/No_Table9297 — 2 months ago

I Proved My Manager Wrong (With a 52k Salary Increase)

For about 14 months, my manager has made it a habit to keep reminding me how "lucky" I am to have a job here. He dumps work on me that has nothing to do with my role, pressures me to stay late without logging the hours, rejects almost every idea I bring up, monitors every tiny thing I do, and somehow still finds a way to blame me when his own problems grow and blow up. It got to the point where just seeing his name pop up on my phone makes my stomach turn, because most likely he's coming in to yell at me about something I didn't even cause.

I asked for the work situation to change and for him to treat me like a human being. He basically said no. Then he took it further and told me I should be grateful for this position, that I'm not putting in enough effort, and that I won't find anything better anywhere else.

Turns out he was wrong. I've been quietly applying and doing interviews over the last 7 weeks, and now I have 8 offers. I'm about to sign the official paperwork for a better role that pays 52k more. The person who interviewed me will be my new manager, and they spoke to me with genuine respect, which was honestly shocking, but in the best possible way.

I'm writing my resignation letter now and I genuinely can't stop smiling.

Sometimes the smartest way to show your manager that they underestimated you is to be ready for the next opportunity that opens up in front of you. This requires good interview preparation that gives you the confidence . I recently came across a guide about job interview tips and found it may be useful for both of us.

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u/No_Table9297 — 2 months ago

Last Day at Work and People Are Acting Like I'm Still Planning a Future Here

Just a little vent about offboarding instead of onboarding.

Today is my last day. I gave them three weeks' notice. Early this morning, my supervisor asked me if I was going to join the planning meeting for next month. I said, "I don't really feel like it would be very useful for me to hear what next month is supposed to look like..." He looked at me like I had just stuck a fork in his lunch and threw it across the room.

Then the person at the front desk said, "You must be buried in last-minute things they want you to finish before you leave! Your day must be so busy." I said, "I mean... This is my last day, I'm not going to torture myself over things they suddenly need from me."

My boss called me and asked if I had prepared my usual work for next month or something, because they're going to need at least 4 weeks before they have someone trained. What???? No, I didn't do that. It's not my job to keep the place running after I'm no longer employed here. This is genuinely absurd.

After that, the supervisor sent an email and copied my boss, about some trivial task from a few weeks ago that I hadn't gotten around to doing. He wanted to know why I hadn't finished his weirdly accumulated "to do" list. Again... This is my last day.

Am I going crazy??? I've worked in management roles before, and I've never expected someone to go above and beyond after they had already given three weeks' notice.

This is why I don't think you should wait until you're leaving a job to start preparing for the next one. You never know when you'll need to interview again, and being prepared can take a lot of the pressure off. I came across this post recently and it gives tips for virtual Interviews and helps to be less anxious

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u/No_Table9297 — 2 months ago

HR people and hiring managers, wait two seconds before saying any nonsense

I just got a random call from an in-house recruiter. "You wrote that your French is fluent on your CV." "Yes, I wrote that. I studied a dual honours degree with French, lived in Belgium, and worked in more than one role in bilingual and multilingual environments." "Okay, but we need someone who can speak French fluently, and also read and write in it."

[In my head I was saying, sweetheart, do you even understand English?! 😁😳 At that point I changed direction and asked about the salary. She dodged and tried to book a Zoom call so she could "explain" the role to me.

HELLO, is this woman for real?

"I'm at a fairly advanced stage in a few other hiring processes, so I'd like to see where they go first. Thanks, have a nice day."

What I should have said: oui, espèce de conne mal élevée, va te faire cuire un oeuf 😁

*My CV literally says French - fluent/advanced - I haven't split it into speaking, listening, reading, and writing

A language degree isn't a weekend Duolingo streak. It means you read large amounts of literature, write long essays in the language, do translation, interpreting, oral exams... I did all of that alongside business classes and another language.

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Thanks to everyone for your responses. I appreciate the comments. They're genuinely helpful.

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u/No_Table9297 — 2 months ago