How do you know what you're doing?
I started a new job at the end of last year and a small part of my job is managing relationships, something I haven't really done before.
Every time something about it comes up I get a deep sense of imposter syndrome. I don't know what I'm supposed to be doing and I feel like everyone around me expects me to just know how to do it organically.
Relationship managers, how do you know what you're meant to do? Is there some kind of guide or course I should have done before starting this job?
In the rest of my job, I know what I'm doing and I have had great performance feedback. But with this I just have no clue! I feel like I need to be sat down and guided through it but everyone at my work is so busy and seems to assume I just know what I'm doing. The onboarding process wasn't great and my previous manager was very absent. My friends and family say I should just ask for help but I feel embarrassed as it feels a bit late for that and a bit like I really *should* know this stuff.
Please help!