u/OcelotBudget3292

“Wool allergies aren’t real”

I fucking hate it when fiber people insist that “wool allergies don’t exist!”

Their posts tend to go “You only think you’re allergic to wool because you’ve only encountered low-quality wool. But MY wool is the best wool ever, not scratchy at all, and if you just touched it, you’d realize that your wool allergy is fake. In fact, claiming to be allergic to it harms people with actual life-threatening allergies because it makes people not take allergy claims seriously!”

Like, do you listen to yourself? You do realize that you’re the one not taking allergies seriously, right? Do you have any medical training that would allow you to test someone’s allergies? More fundamentally, do you actually think that invalidating people’s experiences is going to suddenly make them want to buy your product? If someone doesn’t like wool, regardless of whether they’re ”actually” allergic or not, scolding them is not going to make them suddenly fall in love with wool and spend tons of money on your yarn.

Because that’s always what this shit comes down to. Somebody’s offended that people don’t want to buy wool from them, so they try to act all morally superior and shame people, despite the whole thing being so transparently profit-motivated.

And look, I almost always knit with wool or wool-blends, and non-superwash wool to boot. But when influencers or companies pull that shtick, I cannot hit the unsubscribe button fast enough. It’s infuriating. But what pisses me off the most is when they eventually back down to “Well, sure, some people are allergic to wool, but most aren’t so no one should say that they are!” No, you fucking said that wool allergies don’t exist, and also this new stance doesn’t make you any less of a dick!

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u/OcelotBudget3292 — 3 days ago

Don’t just buy random craft supplies as presents!

Maybe this is me being a bit of an ungrateful snob, but I really don’t like it when family/friends gift me crafting supplies. I get that they think they’re being thoughtful buying something for my family, but it’s like they have no taste or no understanding.

Things I’ve been given:

  • some of the crappiest acrylic I’ve ever used, but in a sweater quantity for “practice.” (It was practice in patience, but that yarn was so miserable to use that I eventually shoved it in a closet)
  • a bag of yarn that smelled as though a wild animal had peed on it. (It smelled so bad and nothing got rid of the smell so I had to throw it out.)
  • yarn for projects they want me to make for them (the audacity! and double points when it’s colors I dislike)
  • Cheap straight needles when I use circulars or DPNs
  • And, my personal favorite, a set of crochet hooks…

I’m not expecting people to shell out for hand-dyed yarn or anything, but if they’re only going to spend a few bucks on yarn, then let me pick out a pattern I’ve had my eye on. Or get stitch markers or something that wouldn’t actively impede my enjoyment.

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u/OcelotBudget3292 — 2 months ago