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L1 (me - Jupiter) changes signs before perfecting the conjunction with L7 (him - Mercury). I know that’s a classic sign of a ‘no’. But I was wondering whether you can see anything else here.

L1 is in dignity but I don’t feel good at all lol. What does the sign change mean? Do I move on from the thoughts of him? But then Jupiter in Leo is peregrine which weakens its condition.

Mercury in cancer (him) exalts Jupiter (me). But that doesn’t mean he wants to reconcile. He will move into retrograde meaning a rethinking of a past decision?

Moon is debilitated, my hopes are coming from a place of suffering. It will trine both Mercury and Jupiter before it leaves cancer, but does it change the outcome?

Debilitated Saturn on the IC also points to a no.

I’m blue, he’s orange. We’ve been seeing each other for two weeks with the intention of keeping things casual. He has a big professional exam coming up and I’ve been healing myself after an abusive relationship. But a part of me sees the potential for a deeper connection and I’m very much drawn to him. I don’t have many big feelings yet. But when he tells me that there are no feelings involved on his part, it does feel a bit painful. There’s the Venus-Pluto conjunction which we share because of the age gap. Never experienced it before, but it’s said to be transformative and a love of a lifetime kind of connection. So how does it play out in a casual relationship?

Im blue
We met online, soon also in real life. The Synastry really grabbed my attention, nearly all of the intense crazy jealous love aspects are here (his mars on my moon, Pluto on Venus, Venus on mars). I’m intimidated by him but so intrigued at the same time. Do you think this could be worthwhile? I like that his moon is the same sign as my Venus. Maybe we’ll both like the intensity, but I’d like it to be more so about love than just intimacy