It's ironic how there are endless conversations from people crashing out about their situationship, asking advice, dissecting every interaction, and wondering "what are we??"
If you step back and think about it, do you really think a real, strong relationship will ever develop with someone who you can't properly communicate with - not even at the very inception of the whole thing?? Relationships are like orgasms - you can fake it and try real real hard but the real thing just happens to you and there's no doubt or confusion about what's happening